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not sure why


Posted Tuesday October 28 2008, 3:20 pm

Alright, well i have been dating my boyfriend for a little over 2 weeks now. We "talked" for about a month and a half before he actually asked me out. Anyways, i don't hardly get to see him at school because our class schedules are opposites but at the end of the day he comes to my locker and walks me to my bus and we kiss, etc..Well this morning, i was going in the gym before school starts because i had a club meeting. He was in there because you can go in there before school actually starts. Well he was sitting one table away from me and i acted like i didn't see him to see if he would say hi to me and he never did. Sometimes i feel like he is embarrased by me or something. There is a chance he didn't see me but i was only one t...

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confusing as hell!


Posted Tuesday October 28 2008, 2:26 pm

Please do not judge me, or lecture me, just advice. 18/f
well i have this friend m and he is so sweet to me, and we text every freakin day, and he is always begging me to hang out with him, and if i ask him to come see me at work...he does :)
he's told me that he liked me, and is always texing me first and tells me im cute...blah blah...seems like things are going good right?...wrong, he has a girlfriend.
i always am asking him about her, like should'nt you be paying attention to her and not texting me, and he'll just be like nah, shes fine, or your funner to talk to anyways...and stuff.
well ive hung out with both of them, and she is ALL over him every time.
it bugs...
and he'll end up texting me...

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im 20 years old dating a 14 year old.


Posted Tuesday October 28 2008, 1:37 am

im a 20 year old male and i live in Canada
im dating a 14 soon to be 15 year old girl.
i wanna know if this is wrong? and if i have a problem.
i didnt think i did, but all my friends say i do.
so now idont know
i really love this girl

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how to coop with this?


Posted Tuesday October 28 2008, 1:06 am

Well there's this guy, let's call him Joe, and there's a long (I emphasize LONG) story behind it.
ps: me = 18/f and him = 22/m

We have recently, quite quickly I might add, become friends. Possibly more. We met at a bar, cliché I know, and we went home together that night. There was no sex involved because at the moment I didn't feel ready. He repescted my wishes and spent the night. He facebooked me the following afternoon asking me if I wanted to join him in his Sunday night karaoke ritual, with his friends. Cautious of the consequences, I agreed to go with him, after all he did seem nice. At that point I said "screw it" to the '3 day rule' or the 'dont say yes you'll look needy rule' and surprizingl...

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How do I move on?


Posted Tuesday October 28 2008, 12:38 am

I dated someone from May 24 to October 14 this year and he broke up with me because he got bored of me half way through our relationship and other reasons. I know we weren't together that long but I loved him, and the way i felt for him was stronger than any feeling i've felt with other guys in the past. Thing is, 3 weeks before we broke up, I found out I was pregnant. He was excited about it at first but then started questioning whether we were even slighty ready financially to look after it so I think that was one of the other reasons he left me.

After we broke up, i felt like I had to get an abortion, so I got one last week. Now, I feel like Its my fault and I feel like I've killed an innocent unborn child because I made ...

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Act normal around this guy


Posted Monday October 27 2008, 11:07 pm

14/f

So I've liked this guy for awhile now. Recently he found out I liked him. He still talks to me and acts all nicer and stuff. Before he use to tease me and stuff. Well this last week he has gone back to teasing me again. I can't act normal around guys when they find out I like them. Maybe thats why I don't get a boyfriend or whatever. I just want to know how to talk to this guy like I use to before he knew. I can act completely normal if I like a guy as long as they don't know I do. I just can't get it out of my head. "Act as if none of that never happened" Thats what people tell me to do. I can't do it! Its so hard. He says to me, "how come you never talk to me anymore" I don't think he likes me like ...

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always the one ignored


Posted Monday October 27 2008, 8:45 pm

Here is the thing. I am not ugly, but I am not what you would call hot. I would say that I am between moderate and very pretty. But, whenever I go somewhere with my 2 best friends in the whole world, guys will only pay attention to them. It really bugs me, at school, they are on the top 5 hot list that the guys make up, and even complete strangers will come up to flirt with them. I am always around and may get a little attention but they boys always seem more interested in my 2 friends. Its not a good feeling. What should I do???

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kisses


Posted Monday October 27 2008, 7:18 pm

i just got my first real "make out" last weekend.
i wasnt even scared i was so proud of myselff ahaha, well i wanna try new tequnies and stuff so he'll like ittt and just want more.
tips pleasee ?! :]

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AIM, guysss.


Posted Monday October 27 2008, 7:15 pm

okay so i like this boy and he always IMs me online first ive IMed him first like once,
but i want him to know im into him.
so should i IM him, i just dont want him to think im annoying and i dont know if ill be all that intersting to talk to because i dont know how to flirt all that well and stuff
HELP ME PLEASEEE
tipss!!!
thanksss :]

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i have a terrible problem


Posted Monday October 27 2008, 4:58 pm

17/f
me and this guy who is also my best friend have liked each other on and off for the past 5 years but he's had this complicated and rediculous relationship thats been on and off so i was afraid to get involved with him and then have him go back to this girl who he broke up with nine times. well he finally broke up with her for good. their parents refuse to let them date anymore because now they've broken up ten times.

its been a week since the break up.
now is our time. i've slept at his house before but never when he was single. we always joke about sex and making out so when i slept over at his house this past weekend i was nervous about what he'd want to do. i thought he'd at least try to kiss me but si...

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boyfriend


Posted Monday October 27 2008, 3:16 pm

so i have this boyfriend but everybody knoes him ngirls just come to him and flirt and he does it beck what do i do? I want to get pay back bt don't know how to he mess up evrytime and i don't like this girl that got him introuble and he gave her a hug when i was not in front of him and i told him to stay away what do i do

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Posted Monday October 27 2008, 12:14 pm

i have a bf and we dont talk much we have fights alot but we make up again idk what to do =-[
plz help me

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Posted Monday October 27 2008, 8:38 am

15/f

I really like this guy, we met and I managed to get his msn and myspace.

He flirts with me but I get the impression he flirts with a lot of girls. However, I don't think he'd cheat in a relationship - his last relationship ended cause the girl messed him around, not the other way round.

I just want him really bad, but don't know how to go about getting him to like me. Yes, I know you can't force someone to like you, but there are always things you can do that increase your chances.

So, how do I stand out amongst all the other girls he flirts with and get him to see me as actual girlfriend material?

Also, seeing as the only contact I have with him, without sugg...

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I'm so insecure!


Posted Monday October 27 2008, 3:49 am

Hi. 17/M
I want to ask girls out but there's just a voice at the back of my head that's constantly saying "Why would she ever want to go out with you?"
I'm a really funny guy and I can always make girls laugh, and I know that's a sign that they like you, but I still can't get rid of that damn voice. Where did it come from and how do I get rid of it!

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The Things He Says


Posted Monday October 27 2008, 1:18 am

Okay I haven't been dating my boyfriend tooo long but we are very close. I go to church with him and his family every Sunday. We go to the park and he plays with my son. He treats my son as if he was his child. He has this habbit of "scarying people" yelling out the window of the car, hes beeped at two people while i was driving (whom happened to be girls).. he tends to talk about "banging" celeberties and he will talk about his past relationships. when i had talked to him about it. he said hes a guy its not like hes going to go cheat on me. is it wrong for me to feel a little upset about it or do i feel this way because every guy i have dated previous has cheated on me??

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Should I stay or should I go?


Posted Monday October 27 2008, 12:26 am

Ok, so my name is samantha and i was dating this girl named jamaica for about 2months. In those 2months i had met a good friend of jamaica's twice. She's a very beautiful woman, we have been texting and calling eachother for about a month now. She is talking to someone at the moment, and myself and jamaica have broken up because of lies she has told me. This female, Mikayla, we have so much in common; i feel like she's my other half, and she tells me that she feels the same way; and when we hang out, its incredible. My ex found out that me and mikayla had been talking and she hates it. Now all of jamaica's friends have been giving me and mikayla a much of shit, and its getting to both of us; and mikayla's just so confused now and she doesnt...

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what am i doing wrong?


Posted Sunday October 26 2008, 9:49 pm

it seems like every boyfriend i've ever had always ended up breaking up with me for their ex girlfriend or another girl. what am i doing wrong?

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miss him as a friend or more?


Posted Sunday October 26 2008, 9:32 pm

okay, about a year ago i dated this boy and when we broke up we didnt talk about it or anything. it was basically done. then like june we started talking again then started dating, we only dated for like a week because he did something stupid and i didnt wanna deal with it. well that was the end of june. after that we still talked everyday, from when we woke up til we fell asleep. we talked ALL the time. i told him everything, he told me pretty much everything. all summer it was like that. at the end of the summer he started dating someone who used to be my best friend, we werent enemies at the time, just werent as close. he pretty much stopped talking to me then. not in a mean way, just idk..we became distant. i was so upset, because i tho...

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New boyfriend...


Posted Sunday October 26 2008, 8:44 pm

Ok, I had a school dance on Friday night. Now, in all the school dances i've been too, I always end up with a boyfriend by the end of the night. I know it's not exactly a good thing that that happens, but it happened again on Friday. The thing is, I've known who this guy was for a long time, but I'd never really begun talking to him until Friday. He's pretty cool, but my ex, who is now dating my best friend, is the one who hooked us up. We were just kind of hanging out when my ex came up with this big plan to hook us up because he thought we liked each other. Now, my ex really likes to play match maker, but he only gets people together because he keeps bugging them about it and eventually it gets so annoying they give in. Well, my ex SAYS t...

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single!


Posted Sunday October 26 2008, 7:49 pm

im 13 ive been single 4 about 3 weeks, and its been ok i guess should i go after someone or not?

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