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Should I stay or should I go?


Question Posted Monday October 27 2008, 12:26 am

Ok, so my name is samantha and i was dating this girl named jamaica for about 2months. In those 2months i had met a good friend of jamaica's twice. She's a very beautiful woman, we have been texting and calling eachother for about a month now. She is talking to someone at the moment, and myself and jamaica have broken up because of lies she has told me. This female, Mikayla, we have so much in common; i feel like she's my other half, and she tells me that she feels the same way; and when we hang out, its incredible. My ex found out that me and mikayla had been talking and she hates it. Now all of jamaica's friends have been giving me and mikayla a much of shit, and its getting to both of us; and mikayla's just so confused now and she doesnt know what to do. I know that i want to be with her, but she still has a thing for the girl she's talking to and she has feelings for myself. Should i stick around and see what happens, or should i just start looking for other females? I want to be with her so bad, its undescribable; but there's just so much drama that my ex is causing and the fact that Mikayla is confused. What should i do? What do you think should happen? im at a loss and dont know what to do anymore. Plz help

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pseudophun answered Monday October 27 2008, 12:46 pm:
You have to think about what will be better for Mikayla's mental state, and yours as well. There is so much drama that it can't, really, be good for either of you.

That's the issue with hooking up with an ex's friend. It just happens. I think you should probably stay in touch but start looking around. She's confused, you seem frustrated and there just needs to be a little space. If you keep in touch, there is always the chance that you two can date later, when things settle down.

For now, though, I think you should move on, just for a little while.

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