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miss him as a friend or more?
okay, about a year ago i dated this boy and when we broke up we didnt talk about it or anything. it was basically done. then like june we started talking again then started dating, we only dated for like a week because he did something stupid and i didnt wanna deal with it. well that was the end of june. after that we still talked everyday, from when we woke up til we fell asleep. we talked ALL the time. i told him everything, he told me pretty much everything. all summer it was like that. at the end of the summer he started dating someone who used to be my best friend, we werent enemies at the time, just werent as close. he pretty much stopped talking to me then. not in a mean way, just idk..we became distant. i was so upset, because i thought i really liked him. i just couldnt tell him and have what happened before happen again. well him and that girl broke up, and like i told him i liked him.. and then we talked about everything and he told me that he was sorry but not like reaching out and talking to me and wanted it to go back to how it used to be.. i was so happy. but then i got thinking..whenever i date him, i dont like him as much as i did before. but whenever he doesnt talk to me for a while i am hurt. i think that i like having him as like a best friend or whatever. idk what im really asking, just asking what you guys think. oh im 15/f btw =]
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I think you like him. You know that saying "you don't know what you have until its gone/you've lost it." something like that. I think its the same as what you are going through. You like this guy, but you don't feel the same way when you are going out, then you lose him, and you see exactly how much you really love and care about him. you miss his as more than a friend.
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It sounds like a similar situation I have.
To make a long story short, a guy I used to think I was in love with is now my best friend and I wouldn't have it any other kind of way. We just aren't relationship material, but I couldn't see my life without him, and maybe that's what's going on here. I love him, and he knows that, but we just aren't compatible. Ha.
Sometimes that's the hand life deals you, and so long as you figure that out you can find a great life in friendship with this person. Don't fret. It's really very nice to have someone you can be so close with, and you don't really miss the dating after a little while.
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