Ok, I had a school dance on Friday night. Now, in all the school dances i've been too, I always end up with a boyfriend by the end of the night. I know it's not exactly a good thing that that happens, but it happened again on Friday. The thing is, I've known who this guy was for a long time, but I'd never really begun talking to him until Friday. He's pretty cool, but my ex, who is now dating my best friend, is the one who hooked us up. We were just kind of hanging out when my ex came up with this big plan to hook us up because he thought we liked each other. Now, my ex really likes to play match maker, but he only gets people together because he keeps bugging them about it and eventually it gets so annoying they give in. Well, my ex SAYS this guy actually liked me and wanted to go out with me, but i'm not sure who's idea it was. So basically, I don't know if this guy actually likes me, or if my ex just annoyed him into liking me. Help?
Razhie answered Monday October 27 2008, 12:04 am: ASK the guy.
Seriously. You are dating him now right? So you should be able to talk to him about these sort of things.
Tell him what you are worried might have happened and ask him straight up if he was actually into you or if your ex just bullied him. That is the ONLY way to ever really know.
If you can't ask your boyfriend, a simple straightforward question about his feelings, then it's not really a relationship worth having anyways. [ Razhie's advice column | Ask Razhie A Question ]
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