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Good talking tips
Posted Wednesday November 19 2008, 1:30 pm
Does anyone have good tips about talking to girls as im useless.
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how can i jst show him that i dnt care! that i can stop bitching n change
Posted Wednesday November 19 2008, 12:18 pm
ok me n my bf have been 2gether since 2000! we have a 3 yr old son n we love each other! but he jst ignores me alot n treats me like im not here! but he treats other people all diff! hes all nice n respectfull 2 them but with me is a whole diff story! he always tells me that i need 2 quit carring about things he dose n i should jst care about that he loves me only! but i tell him but u dnt show me that u do! he says 2 quit bitching n nigging at him! that i need 2 change! n i admit i do bitch n bitch at him alot! its like everyday! but wat gf doesnt! wat can i do 2 change my attitude tores him! how can i show him that i dnt really care about wat he dose even dough i do!
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Posted Wednesday November 19 2008, 11:43 am
I always end up feeling attracted to girls who seem like they like me. I know it's because it makes me feel good about myself, and so i try to nurture that interest - so i end up getting with nearly everyone who even flirts with me. Thing is though, I'm not interested in girls.
Before I decided I was gay, I really liked this girl at college. She's like, the girl equivelent of me. About 9 months ago we really liked eachother and we kissed a few times when we hung out (drunken kisses only). Then she went really cold on me and I moved on. I later found out she started seeing another guy at college and they were still together. We left college for summer and that was that. But then when we came back, the two of them just argued a...
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Posted Wednesday November 19 2008, 2:34 am
I'm in a pretty sticky situation. Over the summer I hooked up with a boy and we began casually dating. Initially I viewed him as a little bit of a sketchy character due to some activities he indulged in, but as time passed we began to find that we had more and more in common. I moved to college last August in a city a little over 3 hours away from home, and I thought that we were over.
He came and visited me several times, and we became very, very close. We became official once again, and I found that I really cared about him. He's very nice to me: cooks me breakfast, gives me everything that he has, treats me like a lady. Since moving to college, however, I made a really good guy friend. At first it started out casually, but...
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FWB...?
Posted Tuesday November 18 2008, 9:22 pm
So here's the situation I have been friends with this guy for a few months now and ever since we first met it was clear we both like each other and like we kissed before and tried dating but it just didn't really work out. Now we're just friends and its working really well except there's still like tension between us because its clear we still like each other. I was thinking we could be like friends with benefits and stay just friends but then like if we get the urge to kiss each other or fool around thats fine and theres no commitments and no expectations which was the problem before. I don't really know if this will work out though and I'm afraid of telling him my idea and how he might react to it....
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christmas
Posted Tuesday November 18 2008, 6:55 pm
what in the world do i get my boyfriend for christmas? we've been dating 1 year and 2 months
17/f
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Mixed Signals
Posted Tuesday November 18 2008, 4:52 pm
To all you girls out there, I have a question/scenario. Here is your chance to give some good advice to a confused man. I had been dating this girl for about 4 months. Everything thing was going FANTASTIC! I played it cool - didn’t rush anything - Just had the most amazing time together. I came over a couple of days ago and she did a complete 180 on me and said it was not working for her anymore. That’s fine, we all go through it – Here is my question: She also told me that when she realized that she loved me - she realized that she could not be in a committed relationship. How do you take that? What do you do about it? Should you do anything? She said she was in basic panic mode and felt uncomfortable in any relationship. She had bee...
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curious
Posted Tuesday November 18 2008, 2:01 pm
I am pregnant and we think it is a girl. I have been thinking about what to tell my child about what I would like from her when it comes to sex. Well what I want to tell her is that she should wait for someone she has been with for a long time, who we (parents) know well and she is pretty sure she loves. The reason I want that is because that is what I did. I didn't have sex until I was 17 and was in love with the man that is now my husband and I really like that I can say I only had sex with one man and he is the one I am with today. I guess it makes for no regrets and stuff like that.
I am really just curious to know something. Those of you who have had sex just because you wanted to do it do you regret it? Also those of y...
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boyys..
Posted Tuesday November 18 2008, 12:36 pm
i dated this guy for about 2 years and i was in love. its been about 7 months now since weve broken up, and im not over him due to the fact that for the first 5 months after we broke up we would still hangout and he would still tell me he had alot of feelings for me until i couldnt take all of that bullshit anymore. just last month hes been saying that he missed me and that he still loved me.. then i wouldnt hear from him for another couple weeks.. its just confusing and annoying like if he really loved me he would actually be trying, but he doesnt and i just want to be done with it all because ive been so hurt by all his bullshit! anyways!! i really just want to get over him, any advice on ways to forget somenoe you were in love with? i re...
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How soon is too soon?
Posted Tuesday November 18 2008, 10:08 am
Male, mid 20's.
My girlfriend wants to get married. I don't think I'm ready. She keeps pulling this "why am I with you if we aren't going to have a future" bit, and if she was being bitchy about it, I'd snap back at her, but instead, she just keeps crying and crying.
I mean, I want to keep her in my life, but how do I make her stop pushing so hard to get married if I'm not ready?
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my boyfriend
Posted Tuesday November 18 2008, 12:26 am
me and my boyfriend have been going out since march
and hes in college and im still in highschool. yeah i know its stupid and no one stays together when they go to college. but theres just something different about us. whenever were together its perfect. but lately we barely talk. and its just like boring. and im ALWAYS the one who has to text him. and like he just doesnt seem like interested in me. but then he will tell me he loves me and stuff. and ill like try to talk about us and like stuff and he will just get mad. i was like you really dont seem like you wanna be with me anymore and hes like i do and if you ask that one more time then we are through. hes been a complete dick to me lately and im scared if i do say the wrong thin...
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2 guys one me
Posted Tuesday November 18 2008, 12:25 am
ok im 15 female
im in a relationship and in 2 days it will be a month and his name lets say is Kris and i swear i love him and our relationship is perfect but hes a virgin and isnt ready for intercourse yet but im not a virgin and lately iv been really craving it...
today i hung out with my friend...umm...Mark and iv always secreatly kinda liked him and he was giving me a lot of attention tonight and then i gave in and he had his arms around me and at two moments in the night we kissed and then once i even was making out with him and i realized how i really like him
now i like both guys for different reasons and i dont know what to do...should i stay in my relationship?...should i go to Mark?.......
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boyfriends clothes..
Posted Monday November 17 2008, 11:30 pm
soo, i heard that it can be sexy to your boyfriend when you wear his clothes.. like a tshirt or something. but how do i actually get them you know? i don't live with him and i don't spend the night or anything. anyway, if anyone has advice i'd be happy to have some, thanx :)
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Why can't I let myself be happy
Posted Monday November 17 2008, 10:32 pm
19f, Ok it seems like when I like someone, really like someone, they always end up disappearing somehow. And the people that really like me who I sorta settle for for are the people that I always end up hurting. I don't understand why I can't be happy with the nice ones. for instance one of the guys im talking to right now is really sweet and really likes me. I don't know why I am so reluctant to enter into a relationship with him. Why can't I just let myself be happy with the person who would try their best to make me happy versus one Im not sure cares. The other guy that I am interested in, who I like just a little more, I don't talk as much and I don't know if he REALLY likes me like he says he does. But somehow I find myself thinking ab...
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present for bf
Posted Monday November 17 2008, 8:35 pm
I want to get my bf something really sweet and cute, but something that he'll actually use alot, and think of me when ever i use it. We've been dating for almost a year now so i want to get him something special. But he's kinda tight on money right now so i want to get him something pretty cheap because i dont want him to feel like he should have gotten me something expencive. So for sure under $40. And i have absolutely no idea what to get him :( HELP
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why do i feel this way?
Posted Monday November 17 2008, 7:46 pm
my ex and i broke up but we have been talking now to work things out. but i do get sad thinking about him. i knw its normal but how do i explain it to him. he thinks that i just get sad thinking of him so why try to work things out and be together again. any help would be appreciated.
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Dance
Posted Monday November 17 2008, 7:00 pm
Well if any of you have seen Laguna Beach you kno that they ask eachother to there school dances in really cute ways. Well my friends and I started doing that too. Last year I sent my bf on a scavanger hunt, but this year i'm drawing a blank. any ideas???
Thanks =)
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does my boyfriend still have feelings for my sister?
Posted Monday November 17 2008, 5:37 pm
ok i have a big problem and need help *sigh*
i am going out with a guy who used to like my sister. but she did not like him at all he went chasing for her for a long time it was annoying. i didnt like him at that time or even noticed the attraction for him. he asked her out and i helped him ask my sister out, and she said NO. so he was heart broken. then a couple months later he gives up and another guy goes for my sister and he wants her. then he texted me and said he liked me and brought up if he would want to go out with me. and i said no because i only liked him as a friend and that it wouldnt work out for us. a couple days later i had these really strong feelings for him and started to really like him a lot and told my ...
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ex boyfriend
Posted Monday November 17 2008, 4:53 pm
I am 15/f and my ex is 17/m. We went out last year (freshman and junior) and we kinda rushed things. all we did was hook up, but we broke up after a month. we had great chemistry(same interests, same music, same sense of humor, both did track), but he said it wasn't working. but that was then. i was his first gf, and i think maybe close to his first kiss, if not the first.
after that, we said hi in person when i saw him and actually had the guts to smile.. but thats all. we also talked on aim a few times. then in the summer we only talked like twice.
so this year... we pass eachother in the hallways a lot. sometimes when i dare to look at him, we make eye contact. and we recently smiled at eachother for the first time since l...
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Boys
Posted Monday November 17 2008, 3:55 pm
Hi, im a sophomore girl in highschool and i seem to be having problems with boys. i like boys im not gay. People tell me im gorgeous and i know i am cause i hear it from so many guys that try getting with me and im really confident about my looks.(not to be concieted)i shouldnt be having a problem with boys but for some reason when i start talking to a boy and i like them, and am about to hang out with them to hook up or whatever i dont want to. I dont know what to do about it cause all my friends are getting on with their love lives and im not. i dont know if im prude or what, if i am how do i fix it? i dont know what is my problem but i get nervous or scared or something when i see the guy. what should i do? please help!
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