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my boyfriend
me and my boyfriend have been going out since march
and hes in college and im still in highschool. yeah i know its stupid and no one stays together when they go to college. but theres just something different about us. whenever were together its perfect. but lately we barely talk. and its just like boring. and im ALWAYS the one who has to text him. and like he just doesnt seem like interested in me. but then he will tell me he loves me and stuff. and ill like try to talk about us and like stuff and he will just get mad. i was like you really dont seem like you wanna be with me anymore and hes like i do and if you ask that one more time then we are through. hes been a complete dick to me lately and im scared if i do say the wrong thing he is gonna leave me. i just talked to him right now since yesterday and hes like whats wrng and im like i miss you. and hes like if you did you have texted me sometime throughout the day. and im like sorry. i took a nap when i got home from school and just woke up cause i didnt feel good. and hes like ok. and then hes like im studying ill talk to you later. and it makes me soo mad cause hes always "studying" so im just like you dont wanna be with anymore i know you dont. i cry everyday. we never tlak anymore and nothings the same so just tell me. and he didnt text me back. i really fell for him and i hate that i did. and i know when people go to college they always cheat on there girlfreinds and boyfriends. but i know hes not like that. he doesnt party and i really dont think he would cheat on me.
i dont know waht to do. i try talking about it but it doesnt get anywhere.
i need something to say to him because lately its been getting to me. and i dont let things get to me and i really fell for him.hellllp!
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well look
talkin to him is gonna be hard and i know that.
and you gotta stop assuming things. saying things like no one stays together when they go to college. and i know when people go to college they always cheat on there girlfreinds and boyfriends. not everyones like that. and i know it isnt all that great that he doesnt like talkin to you about yalls relationship. but honestly im like that to. i guess he likes the fact that he doesnt have to be with you 24/7 but yet your always there for him. but then again if its hurting you than all you CAN do is talk to him about it. i know its hard. but you have to. tell him tha you love him and that its hurting you that you dont get to see him that much anymore.
and if he dont wanna listen, and its REALLY hurting you. than you have to move on to someone that WANTS to be with you. i know its gonna hurt like crap. and i know you wont forget about hm easily. but love doesnt hurt. and when it hurts it aint love. i wish you luck and i just hope you give him a chance to tell his side of the story
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K obviously your bf isnt a very talkative person but you need to get your feelings out or things wont work out talk to him and tell him you know that he will probably break up with you because your talking about something he didnt want to but tell him that you love him and how you feel im sure once he hears you out he wont want to break up with you i hope you get what im saying good luck:)
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