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Hi, im a sophomore girl in highschool and i seem to be having problems with boys. i like boys im not gay. People tell me im gorgeous and i know i am cause i hear it from so many guys that try getting with me and im really confident about my looks.(not to be concieted)i shouldnt be having a problem with boys but for some reason when i start talking to a boy and i like them, and am about to hang out with them to hook up or whatever i dont want to. I dont know what to do about it cause all my friends are getting on with their love lives and im not. i dont know if im prude or what, if i am how do i fix it? i dont know what is my problem but i get nervous or scared or something when i see the guy. what should i do? please help!
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i'm just like you :) people told me that i was so pretty, and i never had a boyfiend until a couple years ago and people never believed me when i said this. i always pushed guys away when i heard they like me and i think this happens to the best of us. we're scared to be in a relationship, we're scared of committment. i wanted to be with someone so bad, but i was scared that i was going to mess things up, and i didn't know how to act with a boyfriend. i didn't really do anything sexually with boys either even though i wanted to. i would tell the boy that i wanted to and when it came time i bailed out and i felt like such a tease but that was not what it was at all, i was just nervous because it was something new. i certainly was not a lesbian but i was scared that people were going to think that about me because i never had a boyfriend. well finally it changed about two years ago. this boy liked me and well i did like him too and finally i had the courage to go out with him because, what is there to lose? it's great that you have such a high self-esteem i am proud of you, now all you need to do is not care what other people think about you and just go for what you want. life is all about taking chances, and everything happens for a reason! it's normal to be nervous or scared when you see the guy you like, but he likes you for you so don't ever change. if you need anything else, just leave it in the inbox. good luck girl i know you will be fine ♥ LU
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