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ex boyfriend
I am 15/f and my ex is 17/m. We went out last year (freshman and junior) and we kinda rushed things. all we did was hook up, but we broke up after a month. we had great chemistry(same interests, same music, same sense of humor, both did track), but he said it wasn't working. but that was then. i was his first gf, and i think maybe close to his first kiss, if not the first.
after that, we said hi in person when i saw him and actually had the guts to smile.. but thats all. we also talked on aim a few times. then in the summer we only talked like twice.
so this year... we pass eachother in the hallways a lot. sometimes when i dare to look at him, we make eye contact. and we recently smiled at eachother for the first time since like june. we've talked on aim recently, and it went really well. he even remember a lot of things about me, and was talkative.
I never got over him, and i still really like him. He's different than any boy i've ever dated, and it seems stupid but I don't think theres anyone i'd rather be with now.
Is it possible he still likes me ? (I was his first gf)
Any tips on trying to get closer, and maybe move into a relationship?
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TIP #1: TAKE THINGS SLOW :)
don't ever rush into anything when you first get into a relationship. taking things too fast could go two ways. one, he could just be using you because he knows that you will hook up will him only after a couple weeks of going out or two, he just got really scared because you were his first girlfriend and maybe he was scared of committment and just thought things were moving too fast. now if you want to get back together with him, you have to start talking to him in person. it's nice that you smiled at him, but you have to have the courage to start talking to him again in person and after you have the courage to do that maybe you two can start hanging out again. don't be shy about this, it seems as if both of you are just nervous and it's normal to be like this with someone you like. i know that feeling when you can't see yourself with someone else and right now i'm going through something like that and you know what, i'm not giving up. don't you ever give up on something you want because if you want it badly enough, you can get it. if you need any other advice leave it in the inbox. i hope it works out for the best ♥ LU
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