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Good talking tips


Question Posted Wednesday November 19 2008, 1:30 pm

Does anyone have good tips about talking to girls as im useless.

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Jackieee answered Friday November 21 2008, 3:10 pm:
I find it attractive when a guy is funny. but that's just me. However, you can't go wrong being yourself. Be nice (which I'm sure you are) and do not come off obnoxious. Don't show a girl that you're insecure if you are. Don't be shy! Make any kind of conversation like, "Hey, how are you?" "What's up?", talk about a class or a test that you may have both taken and thought was really hard or something. Ask her questions like maybe what she's doing over the weekend.

Girls like to talk, or most of them do, so have good conversation with them and talking to them will be a piece of cake.

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Alyshashi answered Thursday November 20 2008, 8:08 pm:
Hi! My name is Alyssa. I am 14. Obviously, I'm a girl.

Good question =D

To talk to girls, be you. I know that sounds lame, but girls like a guy who is real, and we can TELL when you are lying to us. (One of our secret powers. :P) If you notice something nice about a girl, comliment her. (I.E. I like your hair today, it looks nice.) DON'T say anything about her body. (Nice butt...) That's how you get slapped. Don't worry about messing up around her, because girls love that too! We find it really cute when boys obviously get a little nervous.

Things we don't like? (or at least a majority of us?)
We don't like guys who only talk to us when their friends are around. We also don't like when I guy treats us different when one of his friends are around. If you do that, you will come off as a jerk, which I know you are not. =D

So there you go. Hopefully that helped a bit. Any other qustions I would be happy to help you out with.

Your friend
Lyssa

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Hitoast answered Thursday November 20 2008, 7:43 pm:
Girls almost always like a funny guy :) try to make her laugh. If she's laughing at almost any joke you make, she's definitely into you :) just relax, they're human beings just like you. Of course, they aren't one of your buddies, and everyone acts less mature around your buddies, so hold off on the fart jokes or other disgusting things O.o most girls think those are gross. Also, when talking to her, look her in the eye. Looking away will give her the feeling you're uninterested. Just listen to what she has to say, ask a few questions, and recall a few funny times from the past :) Goodluck! Hope I helped!

-Jessica 14/f

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