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cocky boy


Posted Saturday November 29 2008, 7:03 pm

theres this boy that has been trying to get with me for a long time now and every time i turned him down, all his friends kept trying to hook us up. but finally yesterday i told him that i liked him and now today he is acting all cocky saying stuff like "everyone loves me" and "not sure about her anymore" its really starting to piss me off, the thought that he could of used me.

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Tough luck


Posted Saturday November 29 2008, 12:10 am

15/f
So Im going out with this kid named Kris, and weve been going out for about 3 months, and I definitly love him, like nobody has any idea how much I care about him. He tells me he loves me all the time, and I know he does. But he has only kissed me once, and it wasnt even long, and that was like a month ago, when he gives me hugs there never long and he never seems excited to see me, but then when we talk on the phone hes all love dovey and says he loves me. I just dont know what this means, and its starting to really get to me.

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meet the parents


Posted Friday November 28 2008, 11:49 pm

how long do you usually wait in a relationship to bring them home and meet the parents?

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Texting and my relationship.


Posted Friday November 28 2008, 11:11 pm

My boyfriend has just got texting, I have had texting every since the beginning of our relationship and he has just gotten it. Ever since he has known he was going to get texting he promised me that he wouldnt text any girls, or do anything or talk to anyone that would sacrifice our relationship or make anything worse. So the other day i was at his house and this girl texted him, (i have had problems with her before and dont get along with her) I asked him if he has been texting this girl and lying to me, he said he hasnt and this is the first time she texted him and i asked what she had said and what he replied back. All he told me was that she said Happy Thanksgiving and he replied saying thanks you too, bye. I had used his phone later th...

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Im in love with my neighbor


Posted Friday November 28 2008, 6:46 pm

I am a male, 36 yrs. old. I move into a neighborhood about 5 years ago. My wife and I got friendly with another couple in the neighborhood. A few months went by, going out drinking, restaurants, movies etc., we were hanging out with this couple alot. Anyways one night i was on her couch and myself and Mrs. X were just sitting there. We notice that her husband and my wife were flirting in the kitchen and then they would disappear for a few seconds and come back. the next week end was a New Years party and I was out by a deck fire and Mrs.X came over and sat on my lap and we began to kiss, I told her that i was married and she said it was ok that her and wife decided to wife swap. It seem fun at first and went on for over a year, almost every...

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Fights


Posted Friday November 28 2008, 3:16 pm

My significant other and I have been fighting a lot for the past month. I don't know whether to leave him alone or talk about it. He doesn't seem to want to talk about it, so i asked him if he wanted to break up, and he said he didn't want to do that either. What should I do? I really want to get my mind off of him, and this situation. What should I do. Talking to him about it is not an option right now.

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Not answering my phone or texts


Posted Friday November 28 2008, 3:13 pm

I'm having a problem with my boyfriend not picking up my phone when I call later. Like I emailed him, and he stated he was busy talking to some people at work and he wasn't at his desk to answer me(something that was not work related) He admitted he was wrong and apologized. Than the next day I call him, and he doesnt pick up his phone, he calls me back 20 minutes later. Later on in the day, I text and he was saying his phone was on viberate so he didnt hear it. Than Today I called him, and he called me back an hr later. The problem is if i was to do the same thing once he would be very upset. He has been doing this three days in a row. Right now I don't even wanna deal with him, but i feel so sad, I wanna cry. How do I get my mind off this??? Please help, I need some cheerful advice!!!

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boredddd


Posted Friday November 28 2008, 12:52 pm

i feel like me and my boyfriend always do the same thinggsss. like, we go out to a movie or the mall or something, then we come home and make out since theres nothing to do at my house :P. im getting bored . and no, im not asking for like sexual advice, cause im not planning on going much further anytime soon. but like i hang out with him once or twice a weeeeek and i just need something else to do with him. advice? thankkss

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What should I do? Im so confused...


Posted Friday November 28 2008, 6:05 am

The situation I'm in is so complicated I myself don't understand. I met my best friend (who is a male) at a party when I was 14 years old. I was introduce to him because I wanted to dance with someone so my cousin's boyfriend at the time went to look for a partner for me and he found him. At first, I liked him so much.Me and him talk on the phone and went to other several parties with him. The problem was that my mom sometimes when she felt like gave me permissions to go to the parties and sometimes she didn't let me go. Then if she let me go I could only stay til' 12am (which sucks because usually he would get there around 10pm) and didn't even get the chance to dance with him or anything. Anyways, I enter high school and he went off to co...

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This guy


Posted Friday November 28 2008, 1:36 am

14/f

Ok so I have a crush on this guy. He goes to my church and I see him like twice a week. We are friends and he will talk to me alot. He asked if he could sit by me this last week and of course I said yeah. He is so cool and cute, haha. But yeah I really don't know what I should do. He goes to a private school and I know everyone there, its not very big. So I'm really confused. He walks with me sometimes and will talk to me alot. So what should I do? Here is another thing. I'm a quiet person, I mean I'm not waaay shy but I'm in that range. So the only times I talk to him is when he talks to me. I have never started it...maybe once. But I have to be with my friends and in a good mood and all hyper and stuff. So then I have ...

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Over him


Posted Friday November 28 2008, 1:31 am

14/f

Ok so I did like this guy awhile ago. I am completely over him. The thing is that he found out. He wasn't the same, well he kinda was but I mean he didn't talk to me as much. But he still did. The thing is now is that I'm pretty sure he still thinks I like him. I really don't care because I don't. But being around him and him knowing that I did makes me feel really awkward. I can't talk to him. I mean I can't go up to him and tell him I don't like him. Thats just not me. I am kinda shy but not too much, but that, I can't do. He is really cool and stuff and I want to be his friend again. Well I am his friend and all but I want it back to normal. I mean, we use to walk and talk together and stuff as friends. That hasn't ha...

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Howwww?


Posted Thursday November 27 2008, 11:59 pm

f/15

Okay so I'm dating this guy, We've been dating for about 2 months. We go over each others houses at least 2 or 3 times a week and we always do something on weekends. We have a really nice relationship and I know pretty much everything about him. When we're over each others houses all we do is cuddle and sometimes I make him do kiddie stuffs with me :D But yeah, I really want to kiss him. Ha. I haven't kissed anyone before, obviously and neither has he. When we cuddle is the worst of all, because I never get enough courage to do so, and I know he's not going to make the first move. So, like how do I? What should I do?

Thankies :)

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</3


Posted Thursday November 27 2008, 10:20 pm

there was a guy, screwed me over

didnt talk to eachother for a while.
then became very good friends again, took things farther again. & i got hurt once again, he did the same thing, and ran back to the same girl, when he said he wouldnt.

the thing is, i kinda figured that would happen but i gave him a chance, because i wanted to trust him. obviously i shouldve listened to myself.

now i told him we couldnt be friends.
i havent talked to him in a month, but its hard seeing him around, and not talking to him or even looking at eachother.

i want to forgive him, but i just dont know if i should, or even if i can.
how do you know if you should?

i r...

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ahh


Posted Thursday November 27 2008, 9:50 pm

When me and my boyfriend are sitting down, we hold hands. Well i love holding hands with him, its just something he does that weirds me out! he like holds my hand and he puts our hands on his knee and slowly moves our hands towards his crotch! i dont know if he is purposley doing it or not! does anyone know what i am talking about??? or what his intentions are?? oh gosh.

Thank you verrryy much!! :D

p.s. any answers will help

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college & sexuality


Posted Thursday November 27 2008, 9:20 pm

16/f
I've never even considered the thought of me being bisexual, much less making it a formal thing, but recently I've had a change of heart. I'm excited for college suddenly [which is in a couple of months], only because I have hopes that people will be more open there. I don't exactly know how I'm gonna go about it, but I wanna date a girl. I guess I got jealous when I saw how easily Lindsay Lohan just magically SWITCHED. I never knew it was that easy. I don't know why, but it completely caught me by surprise. For some reason, I want a sexy, Barbie doll, girly girl [like me =)] not a crossdresser or dike, or whatever they're called. I just think that looks better. I've always thought I should've been born a man; wished it actual...

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rough break up..


Posted Thursday November 27 2008, 6:48 pm

my ex and i had dated for over a year a few years ago and then we dated other people on and off until july. we started dating and we were both really happy but i starting noticing that he was becoming more distant and so i talked to him about it many times. so we're both in highschool, same grade..all that jazz.
so it was almost four months and we started getting really tense, so i feared the worse.
then a week before four months he says he cant decide if he's happier with or without me..
so i wait all day, i went into school late, skipped lunch because i was scared to cry infront of him and i had been crying all morning.
so i went the rest of the day without crying and finally at one i broke down in his arms a...

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My boyfriend


Posted Thursday November 27 2008, 4:55 pm

0kay well lastt March i q0t with this b0y named pluckyy andd fromt there we went out for about a monthh and i broke up withh hym bekuhsz he livedd a hour awayy from me andd lonq distance isnt my style
fromm there i was Justt depressed kuhsz i styll likedd hymma nd wee tlked everydayyy 24.7 over and overr soo i begann lovinq hymm! thenn thiss september we started going out andd it wass awsomee we had the best timee untilllll... i Kissed hym! omgahh it was the werstt i hated it idunoo why thoe it may be bekuhsz his lips are little? or he has a little tongue? um idk but i Like hym alot . but here the thinggg i broke up withh hymm and these past two months we been seperated thenn i findd outt myy best friend brittney loved hym! and dhe w...

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boys


Posted Thursday November 27 2008, 1:28 pm

how do you know if a guy wants to kiss you?

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What are some ways to pull off the whole 'secret admirer' thing?


Posted Thursday November 27 2008, 12:03 am

I'm considering leaving a note or something for the dude I like. What are some ways to not have him suspect its you? I want to keep it going for a little while before I actually tell him.

16/f

Thanks

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he wants to...but doesnt!


Posted Thursday November 27 2008, 12:00 am

i need to know if he likes me or is using me or what!?
i met this guy three weeks ago. hes perfect for me in every way and im a VERY picky girl. we were obsessed with eachother for the first few days. we went out, we kissed, we tried seeing eachother whenever we could, he was the sweetest. i thought we were about to go out. everyone in school was talking about it. we were perfect. i was waiting for him to ask me out...
he never did. the week after we made it clear we liked eachother and went out, he treated me like his girlfriend in front of people. we spent time together everyday because we were doing the same activity afterschool. hes a very flirty/friendly guy and always has girls flirting with him, which didnt bother me b...

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