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Okay so I'm dating this guy, We've been dating for about 2 months. We go over each others houses at least 2 or 3 times a week and we always do something on weekends. We have a really nice relationship and I know pretty much everything about him. When we're over each others houses all we do is cuddle and sometimes I make him do kiddie stuffs with me :D But yeah, I really want to kiss him. Ha. I haven't kissed anyone before, obviously and neither has he. When we cuddle is the worst of all, because I never get enough courage to do so, and I know he's not going to make the first move. So, like how do I? What should I do?
Thankies :)
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When your cuddling its harder, because I think it feels very different - a state of vulnerability. Everything off, its quiet (in your head at least because you want it so bad) and once you start thinking about it, you become conscious enough of the other person, that you become inflicted with doubt, So if you do decide to do it , DO IT, don't think. (HE has definetely thought about it as well, trust me, really) And hey- if thats where you want your first kiss to be (which, is totally cool - nothing can be more Private than a kiss) then I don't think at all, from a guys perspective for a girl to make the first move, sometimes its overpowering and the guy will like you even more for stepping it up, maybe say something witty afterwards like "I just couldn't wait any longer" or "I'm sorry, I couldn't resist" and smile! if doing it that way is a bit uncomfortable? (seeing as you may have just stared at him already and nervously waited for him to do it), you can always make it into one of your kiddie stuff games, something fun is always cool. Actually!- seeing as it is a first, its better that you should be comfortable with it and get the feel of things before making a joke of it (not the best words to use. sorry) And hey -nothings wrong with simply asking the question. "Do you want to kiss me?". Making it sound seductive is even more daring, because your just asking, you haven't given anything away about yourself- as in, whether or not you'd like to -of course, and if he says yes, and still doesn't?!! just move in slow, he'll get there.
BEST OF LUCK, as long as your doing whats right in your heart, you can never ever go wrong. Be good!
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how cute:)
well all i can say is to be confident suprise him without him knowing hug him and kiss his upper lip softly then the bottom no teeth just suck on them slightly take one step at a time dont french kiss him just yet. dont rush to do anything else your not comfortable to do wish you the best of luck with your first kiss.
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Well its been 2 months alreadyyyy??? Then its definitly time to make the move. next time you and him are hanging out at his house or where ever you go you need to be close to him (better if leaning against him) then just look into his eyes until you both are staring at each other and just kiss him.!
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