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Im in love with my neighbor

Question Posted Friday November 28 2008, 6:46 pm

I am a male, 36 yrs. old. I move into a neighborhood about 5 years ago. My wife and I got friendly with another couple in the neighborhood. A few months went by, going out drinking, restaurants, movies etc., we were hanging out with this couple alot. Anyways one night i was on her couch and myself and Mrs. X were just sitting there. We notice that her husband and my wife were flirting in the kitchen and then they would disappear for a few seconds and come back. the next week end was a New Years party and I was out by a deck fire and Mrs.X came over and sat on my lap and we began to kiss, I told her that i was married and she said it was ok that her and wife decided to wife swap. It seem fun at first and went on for over a year, almost every weekend. My wife decided she had enough, she probably seen the chemistry between myself and Mrs.x, anyways its been almost 4 years now and I am still with Mrs.X only they do not know we still see each other. I fell in love, love like I never felt before. I found my soul mate and she says she found hers. I just cant take the sneeking, lying and fighting anymore. we also have 3 children a piece.This story cannot be told in 2000 characters but i could sure use some advice from someone who is willing to hear the whole story, thanks for your time.

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MXbri answered Monday December 1 2008, 2:23 pm:
There's obviously a lot missing.
Im really interested in hearing the
rest and trying my best to give you
any advice at all!!

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Anjelic answered Sunday November 30 2008, 11:55 am:
Before I answer I noticed that there is more to the story, would you like to tell me the rest?
Let me know.

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Sweet_LiL_Angel answered Sunday November 30 2008, 11:43 am:
Maybe you should talk to you wife let her know how you feel about this other woman. If you Honestly feel as if you can't stay married to your wife and that you have to be with this other woman. Than maybe its best to sperate. Other wise i think you need to move away from her. keep your family together for the sake of your children.

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surferchick16 answered Sunday November 30 2008, 11:28 am:
Honestly, I am not one for adultery, and I have learned in my short time that honesty is the best policy. IF you found your soulmate, you really need to talk to your wife, because sneaking around behind her back, isn't nice and its just don't seem fair. I wouldn't mind hearing the whole story, and I would love to listen and help you out anyway I can. I just think you should be honest with your wife, b/c if not this can destroy your family with your wife and 3 children. Be fair to her, before things do get worse. I'm sorry if I sound harsh, I just don't like seeing people get hurt, and I know that the truth hurts but its the best policy.

So if you would like to talk about this, by all means give me your email and we can talk about it. Thats why I am on advicenators, I love to help people. :)

<3 Jeannie

If you don't want to talk then I wish you luck with this situation, just follow your heart, and make an appropiate decision. All the best :)

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