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Fights
My significant other and I have been fighting a lot for the past month. I don't know whether to leave him alone or talk about it. He doesn't seem to want to talk about it, so i asked him if he wanted to break up, and he said he didn't want to do that either. What should I do? I really want to get my mind off of him, and this situation. What should I do. Talking to him about it is not an option right now.
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Sometimes the best thing is to just let it be and let it cool off. There may be underlying problems that are the real reasons for the fights.
Ask yourself if whatever you are fighting about is worth the pain of the fight. If it's not, then let it go. This is very hard to do, believe me, I know.
If you pay less attention to fighting and don't care who wins or loses you will notice that the fighting is lessened and maybe, if you stay quiet, he will notice that sometimes he says things that truly hurt you. Especially when you stop reacting. That is actually one of the things that happens when a woman has had enough and is just about ready to move on. He knows that deep inside. And it will be like a splash of cold water.
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I think the best thing to do in this situation is to take a little break from one another. Maybe, just one or two days. Do something that you enjoy doing. Like shopping, or going out with your friends. Something that will take your mind off of him. After you do this, you should deffinitly try and talk to him, about whats been going on. If he doesn't want to talk about it, then i dont think theres anything else you can do.
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We'll its not healthy to stay in a realationship with someone if your fighting a lot and if he doesn't talk about it then how will you fix it? My soulution is since it seems obvious you still like him a lot then ask for a break. Like a week or two. It could be many things. Like something could have happened with a family or a close friend. Or bad credit. It could be anything so just try and see what happens. Hope I helped. :)
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