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When me and my boyfriend are sitting down, we hold hands. Well i love holding hands with him, its just something he does that weirds me out! he like holds my hand and he puts our hands on his knee and slowly moves our hands towards his crotch! i dont know if he is purposley doing it or not! does anyone know what i am talking about??? or what his intentions are?? oh gosh.
Thank you verrryy much!! :D
p.s. any answers will help
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Honestly, he's a teenage guy, he's probably trying to not-so-subtly hint he wants a handjob. If you don't want to, just move your hand down (towards knees) or towards you a little more or even let go entirely. He'll figure it out.
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You should lead his hand to very bizarre places on your own body, such as your feet, top of your head, shoulder blade, etc.
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if it bothers you definitely speak about it lack of communication will affect you guys ask him why and does he know his doing it and tell him you dont feel comfortable when he does that.
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Sometimes guys do that to see how far you're allowing him to go. If you don't signal to him in some way that you're uncomfortable with him doing that, even in a subtle way like putting your hands somewhere else (like on his knee), he might think it's okay with you. He might possibly take that as a sign that you're comfortable with other things too. If he tries anything else, or brings anything up, you can always tell him if you aren't ready to take things further. Always stand up for yourself and only do things you feel comfortable doing.
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well it seems to me that he wants something a little more than just holding hands..if you don't want to go any further, let him know..and if he doesn't respect that, don't do it just because you don't wanna lose him..communication is the key to a good relationship..and tell him you hope he understands..
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next time you guys hold hands just kinda lay your hand(s) on your knee or between you guys. if you still want to have your hand(s) on his knee then i sugest that everytime he kinda moves his hand down, you move your hand up.
hope i helped! =]
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