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Over him
14/f
Ok so I did like this guy awhile ago. I am completely over him. The thing is that he found out. He wasn't the same, well he kinda was but I mean he didn't talk to me as much. But he still did. The thing is now is that I'm pretty sure he still thinks I like him. I really don't care because I don't. But being around him and him knowing that I did makes me feel really awkward. I can't talk to him. I mean I can't go up to him and tell him I don't like him. Thats just not me. I am kinda shy but not too much, but that, I can't do. He is really cool and stuff and I want to be his friend again. Well I am his friend and all but I want it back to normal. I mean, we use to walk and talk together and stuff as friends. That hasn't happened in awhile and I miss that. Thats about all I can say here and thanks so much!
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Just come right out and tell him. Sometimes it takes more courage than we think we have. But trust me, you have it in you. Just tell him you want to just be friends and hang out like you used to.
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A situation similar to this has happened to me before, the only difference is i am still completely in love with the guy. I have loved him for two and a half years now, when i first met him we were great friends, and than we went out and broke up. We stopped talking and than were friends again, but now we dont talk anymore. I really want it to be back to normal too. The thing is, even though is may feel akward, you have to tell him you dont have feelings for him anymore. Tell him that you really want to be friends and get back to how it used to be. The only reason he is acting weird around you is because he knows deep down that he has feelings for you and although he doesnt want to be with you he doesnt want to loose you. Friendship is so important and if you have been friends for quite some time you shouldnt let this get inbetween you. This guy obviously means something to you, you care about him, and thats not wrong. You dont have to like someone to care about them. Just tell him that. I would say::
(guy)______, i care about you, but i do not like you. i want to get back to walking and talking and telling eachother things. I waited for you too long and just because i dont want to be with you, doesnt mean i dont want to be friends. i hope we can get bck to that.
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