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Member Since: November 30, 2008
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Last Update: November 30, 2008
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I need a good song to make me cry

about a guy i REALLY liked, and he got back with is ex =( and he never knew how i felt.

i know all taylor swift songs, so please dont give me those!
thanks! (link)
there are plenty of songs about love::

one moment more,
fall for you,
broken road,
only hope,
hands down,
you were mine,
cowboy take me away,
theres a few;;
theres many more.


14/f

Ok so I did like this guy awhile ago. I am completely over him. The thing is that he found out. He wasn't the same, well he kinda was but I mean he didn't talk to me as much. But he still did. The thing is now is that I'm pretty sure he still thinks I like him. I really don't care because I don't. But being around him and him knowing that I did makes me feel really awkward. I can't talk to him. I mean I can't go up to him and tell him I don't like him. Thats just not me. I am kinda shy but not too much, but that, I can't do. He is really cool and stuff and I want to be his friend again. Well I am his friend and all but I want it back to normal. I mean, we use to walk and talk together and stuff as friends. That hasn't happened in awhile and I miss that. Thats about all I can say here and thanks so much! (link)
A situation similar to this has happened to me before, the only difference is i am still completely in love with the guy. I have loved him for two and a half years now, when i first met him we were great friends, and than we went out and broke up. We stopped talking and than were friends again, but now we dont talk anymore. I really want it to be back to normal too. The thing is, even though is may feel akward, you have to tell him you dont have feelings for him anymore. Tell him that you really want to be friends and get back to how it used to be. The only reason he is acting weird around you is because he knows deep down that he has feelings for you and although he doesnt want to be with you he doesnt want to loose you. Friendship is so important and if you have been friends for quite some time you shouldnt let this get inbetween you. This guy obviously means something to you, you care about him, and thats not wrong. You dont have to like someone to care about them. Just tell him that. I would say::\

(guy)______, i care about you, but i do not like you. i want to get back to walking and talking and telling eachother things. I waited for you too long and just because i dont want to be with you, doesnt mean i dont want to be friends. i hope we can get bck to that.


I aboslutely cannot stand my family. My brother annoys the crap out of me and I always get really mad when he's around. And my Dad is just like him, but worse. My Mom and I get in fights every day about the stupidest things. I can never be around my brother and Dad for more than 5 minutes at a time or I get super annoyed or really pissed. They know what they're going is annoying me and pissing me off, but yet they just keep doing it. More and more. They make fun of me, gang up on me and do whatever else they think of to piss me off. I've honestly gone to the point today of breaking down and crying in my room for hours because of them. I just can't handle it anymore. I don't like them. At all. What should I doooo? (link)
I know i can not make your family any less annoying, but i can talk to you about it. Brothers and sister, no matter who they are, get annoying at times. Some just happen to be annoying 99.9% of the time. Parents are parents, they had you nad now you have to deal with the consiquences of their childish behavior. I cry quite frequently, so i know how you feel about breaking down, as mentioned in your question. The best thing to do is to get involved in activities and stay as far away from your family as possible. If your not able to get involved in after school stuff, go in your room, lock the door, listen to music or do whatever helps you calm down, and just avoid them. Family is very important, but sometimes people have too much stress and stuff and can just not take it. My sister and i get in fights all the time, and sometimes my father and i do. My mother and other siblings do not live with me, but i know if they did i would get in fights with them. its the constant assemblage of everyone that makes the situations worse. The only thing i can say is to avoid them for a while and maybe they will stop being so obnoxious and immature.




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