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talking to guys.
Posted Thursday December 18 2008, 10:51 pm
f/16
alright. i have trouble talking to guys that hit on me or flirt and stuff. i get all nervous and i have trouble looking at them.
i have no idea how to start a conversation! then they call me stuff like cutie and all that and i don't know what to say!?
help would be great. :)
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he's changed ..
Posted Thursday December 18 2008, 9:08 pm
My boyfriend was the best, he was sweet & cute and he loved me soo much he text me everyday call me and we'd talk for HOURS! we never talk on msn because he'd be on the phone with me..But now it's been 3 months and i don't know he started working a few days ago but he's been canceling our dates.. Not talking to me on the phone.. Never texts me back.. all our communication is really msn. i geuss he doesn't have time for me.. the things he did in the beginning were why i loved him soo deeply now he trys to use shortcuts to get out of things.. like excuses and such. since its a long distance relationship its hard for us, but it wasn't before because we had great communication. But now i don't know how can i get him to relize im alive start...
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how drop the "L" bomb
Posted Thursday December 18 2008, 8:32 pm
how do i tell my parents that i love someone?
im 19/f, but i still think they would freak out.
ive been going out with him for about 8 months and he just said i love you last month.
thanks advicenators.
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a common question, I know
Posted Thursday December 18 2008, 1:48 am
I am stuck on what to get my boyfriend for christmas. I want it to be personal, not too expensive, but still thoughtful because it is our first christmas together. He likes music and travel, and he is from Venezuela and I am from the US. So it is a long distance relationship, but he will be here for christmas. Any help would be awesome!
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Boyfriends number
Posted Thursday December 18 2008, 1:15 am
Ok so me and my bf and just started going out. I am shy and stuff but I don't have his number and he doesn't have mine. How do you get him to ask you for it? I know it usually trades off and stuff but not this time. I would be really nervous to ask so what are some ways to get him to ask me. I know you guys will probably say ask him, and your right but I just can't. So all I'm asking for is someway to get him to ask me. Thanks!
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First Love
Posted Wednesday December 17 2008, 8:26 pm
Why did you part ways from your first love? Your personal stories will help with my issue. Thank you. Please feel free to go into as many details as you want or leave it as vague as you choose.
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going nowhere
Posted Wednesday December 17 2008, 7:50 pm
last year i wrote this kid i had a crush on a note saying i thought he was cute. after that note, i talked to him 2 times .. one right after i wrote it and one time in the summer .. i did it regardless of the fact that he told my friend that he did not like me, but thought i was a nice girl. now at school, we just completely ignore each other .. but his friends always stare at me, so i know he told them the whole story & i see him glancing over at me from time to time in the halls. but it probably means nothing. i just feel like a failure. i'm 16 and i've never kissed anyone. i'm not ugly & i get compliments all the time that i have nice clothes and that i'm really pretty, but i don't ever really talk to guys. i hear things that som...
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Why wont he text me back?
Posted Wednesday December 17 2008, 7:50 pm
Yesterday i got my crushes cell #. so i texted him saying hey its justine! whats up? he never replyed! he sent me a fowarded message text! so technically he didnt reply. then today i sent him another text saying hey whats up? and again he didnt reply!!! i know he has a crush on me because he told my 2 friends and my friend over heard him saying he likes me. so he def without a doubt likes me back. he knows i like him 2 cause my friend told him. so if he likes me y wouldnt he text me back? im kinda depressed that he never did. so yea thats my pathetic problem! lol. i would really like some advice!!! thanks soo much!!!
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nervous around my best guy friend?
Posted Wednesday December 17 2008, 4:35 pm
18/f
i've known my best guy friend for about, 4 years now. I love the kid, i really do like him alot but he has a girlfriend of two years. Anyways, whenever i know i am going to see him, or right before i walk into a room where he is going to be my hands shake like crazy and my heart pounds so fast, it feels like i'm going to faint or something. I cant control it though, its like im nervous to see him? The weird thing is, i'm so comfortable around him. I tell him just about everything and the shaking stops like 5 minutes after i'm with him. I feel like he can always tell that i'm nervous, but i'm really not that nervous? It is confusing but does anyone know why this would happen? Is there any way for me to try and stop this shaking happening?
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Why did he do this to me..
Posted Wednesday December 17 2008, 3:55 pm
so about two weeks ago, i went to my friend sarah's house with another friend, rachel. sarah told me that her younger brother who is a freshman, adam, was going to be there and so was his friend, chris, who was also a freshman. im a sophmore, by the way. so it ended up that me, rachel, sarah, chris, and adam, all basically hung out the whole night and slept in the basement togethor and watched movies and stuff. me and chris basically flirted the entire time but at times i felt like he didnt like me, but i couldnt figure it out. so the next week i sort of liked him but i kind of let it go because i knew nothing would ever happen because he didnt like me. but then, exactly a week later, my friend sarah told me that chris really likes me and h...
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boys turn ons
Posted Wednesday December 17 2008, 2:48 pm
What is the best thing that I can say to turn my man on? We love being naughty. 15/F
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talking dirty
Posted Wednesday December 17 2008, 2:47 pm
I love to text dirty things to my boyfriend and I also love to recieve those amazing heart dropping turn-on texts. The only problem is is that he isn't all that satisfying. How should I help him out?
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Should I persue my feelings
Posted Wednesday December 17 2008, 9:22 am
I briefly dated a guy many years ago, while we were both in relationships with other people. I have seen him a few times since usually talking for five minates or less, we usually keep it general, like how's the family etc. I saw him over a year ago and he made a statement saying that men make the mistake of letting the good ones get away, and I agreed saying that women make the same mistake also. I informed him that I was no longer committed and I didn't notice a ring on his finger either. Anyway I gave him my business card hoping that he would use it and I emailed him but I received no response. I found his address using the internet, would I freak him out by sending him a card or note to let him know that I am interested?
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He hates me?
Posted Wednesday December 17 2008, 12:46 am
There is this guy I like I told him I liked him, he freaked (He has a girlfriend). We would "talk" but he would not look. Then a week later we start "talking" again. In class I overheard him say "I'll just be nice to her" to one of his female friends. That hurt,but then later in the week I overhear him saying "I'd screw her" to the same group of friends. What is his problem?
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Getting more comfortable
Posted Tuesday December 16 2008, 11:05 pm
14/f
Ok me and my bf just started going out a few days ago. I feel so nervous around him though. I just want to know how to feel more comfortable when I'm around him. When we sit next to each other or something I kind of shake but not alot. Like he can't tell I'm shaking. I'm just nervous. Can you tell me some ways I can get more comfortable? Or anything of the sort. Thanks so much!
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dating?
Posted Tuesday December 16 2008, 10:29 pm
Is a 21-year-old girl too young to be dating a 35-year-old?
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do all girls masturbate?
Posted Tuesday December 16 2008, 10:16 pm
do all girls masturbate and some just dont admit it? or do many really not do it?
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sex
Posted Tuesday December 16 2008, 10:02 pm
ok...everytime im with my boyfriend all i can think about is ripping off all of his clothes and having sex with him. i know its wrong and i want to wait until im married and everything but i want it sooo bad!!! i know im a terrible person, and ive done everything BUT go all the way. ive been in a lot of situations where i ALMOST did it but im so afraid of getting pregnant so we stop. one of these days i know im just going to crack and give it up to him but idk if im ready to, my mind is saying that i am but my hearts telling me to wait. what do i do?!?!
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Posted Tuesday December 16 2008, 10:00 pm
why do people try and break you and your man up when they know yall are happy?
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my christmas wish
Posted Tuesday December 16 2008, 8:40 pm
i want someone to love me. i want someone i can love back. someone i can take care of. someone to run around the city with and to talk with into the early hours of the morning.i want someone who will buy me shiny things and fix my computer. someone who can talk common sense into me when i freak out, and remembers small aniversaries. i want someone who loves me because of my imperfections, not in spite of them. someone who is secure of who he is and isnt afraid to stand up for what he belives. i have so much to give and no one sees me for what i could be to someone.
dear advicenators, is this a totally ridiculous wish?
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