Question Posted Thursday December 18 2008, 1:15 am
Ok so me and my bf and just started going out. I am shy and stuff but I don't have his number and he doesn't have mine. How do you get him to ask you for it? I know it usually trades off and stuff but not this time. I would be really nervous to ask so what are some ways to get him to ask me. I know you guys will probably say ask him, and your right but I just can't. So all I'm asking for is someway to get him to ask me. Thanks!
if you have a plan to go some were or another with freinds or with him and your going to meet up with him seperatley, then when you say ok ill meet you (some were) around (some time) ill text you when i get there, then wait for him to ask you for your number or wait for him to say i dont have your number, then u ask him ah yeah can i have it please? hopfully he'll ask you for it im sure he'll want your number too ;P good luck [ annon's advice column | Ask annon A Question ]
TanDancer answered Friday December 19 2008, 11:13 pm: Hey sweetie, I know you're nervous, and you obviously know this, but the best thing to do is to ask him. BUT it's hard, I know. Don't worry, you have time in the future to build up your confidence. For now, why don't you just give him yours? If you go to school with him, you can slip a note into his locker? My boyfriend and I did that all the time for each other--it's easy, and it's a fun thing to do for each other once you've been going out a bit longer. Just an idea! Good luck and much love!
xosodapopx3 answered Friday December 19 2008, 11:08 pm: I read this and laughed in a good way, I SO have had this happen to me before too! I wouldn't wait for him to ask you, just start up a conversation like "hey, I was going to call you yesterday because (make something up) but I realized that I don't have your number!" (smile) just think, he is probably waiting for you to ask him. and then after you say that if you want to you can say "Do you have mine, or do you need it?" Good luck! It'll be fine don't even think about it, just talk to him like you usually do. Update me on how this goes!!! And if you have any other personal concerns or anything, you can contact me on my advice column! :-) and happy holidays :-) [ xosodapopx3's advice column | Ask xosodapopx3 A Question ]
charmedp04 answered Friday December 19 2008, 8:27 pm: okay.here is what you do.if you dress hot and act really nice and sweet to him. buy him something,like a present,or a gift. he would probably really like you for that. if you do stuff like that he should ask you out for sure. thanks for your question! [ charmedp04's advice column | Ask charmedp04 A Question ]
easilyfixed answered Friday December 19 2008, 7:12 pm: Make plans.
"hey do you want to go to "so and so" "this day"?" -you
"yeah sure. what time?" - him
"oh. i don't know. i have to do "insert whatever here". call me and i'll let you know? - you
"okay, whats your number?" - him.
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