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he's changed ..
My boyfriend was the best, he was sweet & cute and he loved me soo much he text me everyday call me and we'd talk for HOURS! we never talk on msn because he'd be on the phone with me..But now it's been 3 months and i don't know he started working a few days ago but he's been canceling our dates.. Not talking to me on the phone.. Never texts me back.. all our communication is really msn. i geuss he doesn't have time for me.. the things he did in the beginning were why i loved him soo deeply now he trys to use shortcuts to get out of things.. like excuses and such. since its a long distance relationship its hard for us, but it wasn't before because we had great communication. But now i don't know how can i get him to relize im alive start calling me again and such.. my friends tell me to dump him because he does sometimes treat me bad but i can't i love him too much.. i want him to see how much i want him to care about me.. i could wait for hours for his phone call while he's at a dumb party and didnt invite me (-.-) i really need advice.. and i do things like wait and wait and i text him every morning i use to call but he said not to anymore in the mornings i would be his alarm clock .. and he doesn't see the things i do for him.. WHY CAN'T HE RELIZE HOW MUCH I LOVE HIM! why can't he put any effort into our relationship.. he makes me wait he goes to party's and dinners with friend and doesn't invite me.. should i dump him?
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No one on this site can tell you to dump him or not, because we don't know him like you do, because it has to be what YOU want to do. :] My best friend is going through a situation like this right now with her boyfriend, and she is seriously considering dumping him. I agree that communication is important, but you've also been trying to communicate with him and get him to see how much you care about him, but he is choosing to ignore you ... it seems to me like you deserve so much better and you deserve someone who wants you as much as you want them. If you're not satisfied with what he's doing, and you've tried numerous times to get through to him, then you should just let him go, I know it might not seem like it now, but in the end .. maybe a few month or years from now, you'll be happy you let him go, and while you may never forget how much you loved him, the relationship just went sour, and it's not your fault, he just changed for the worse. But if you want to give the relationship one more try, then meet up with him IN PERSON and tell him how you feel. But just remember that long distace realtionships don't always work, and people change or become more distant.
Hope I helped and good luck ! xxo
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Communication is important.
Let him know how much you liked getting his calls.
Ask him why doesn't he invite you or at least take that time to talk to you.
Just tell him how you feel and how important it is to you.
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