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Should I persue my feelings


Question Posted Wednesday December 17 2008, 9:22 am

I briefly dated a guy many years ago, while we were both in relationships with other people. I have seen him a few times since usually talking for five minates or less, we usually keep it general, like how's the family etc. I saw him over a year ago and he made a statement saying that men make the mistake of letting the good ones get away, and I agreed saying that women make the same mistake also. I informed him that I was no longer committed and I didn't notice a ring on his finger either. Anyway I gave him my business card hoping that he would use it and I emailed him but I received no response. I found his address using the internet, would I freak him out by sending him a card or note to let him know that I am interested?

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karenR answered Saturday December 20 2008, 7:31 am:
I think he knows you were interested.
I would do as Razhie suggested and then
let it go.

Men are unfortunately notorious for
making themselves sound available when
indeed they are not.

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Razhie answered Wednesday December 17 2008, 11:44 am:
Just send him a friendly Christmas card with a renewal of the "Hey, lets chat/have coffee some time. Love to see you in the New Year!"

If he still doesn't pick up on the suggestion, let it go.

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