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Tattoos on guys
Posted Friday December 26 2008, 1:41 am
For girls,
Where is the most attractive body part you think would be suitable for a tattoo on a guy?
forearm? biceps? shoulders? back? chest?
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I need him out of my head
Posted Thursday December 25 2008, 11:30 pm
I'm 16/f, in 11th grade.
He is 17/m and in 12th grade.
This guy and I had known each other since the end of my 9th grade. After like 6 months, we started going out (like mid-10th grade), and then I was having problems so we broke off for a few months. Then we got back together. He was my first actual bf that I cared about and kissed. Then I was having more problems both within myself and family and for reasons I don't wish to share, I had to cut him out of my life.
I really miss him and I feel like he's my "first love" (yeah, call it cliche teenage love if you want). I can't get him out of my head and I want to but at the same time I don't want to forget about him. And my friend pointed out ...
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Relationship Crisis!
Posted Thursday December 25 2008, 11:09 pm
Okay, my Boyfriend (18) and I (15) have been dating 11 months today, (12-25-08). WE'VE flat out been through HELL! His ex girlfriend, has egged his house, threatened to kill me, I had to take the psycho to court! Me & him made it through that, and that was definately crazy!
Here lately, we fight, not over huge things, but over small stupid things. When we fight, its over stuff like me buying him something and him simply not giving me the money to do it in the first place. Well, my mother had this chat with his mother, she says he wont even let her buy him anything, which i know is true.
Earlier today, we was at his house I was opening presents, and he gets mad at his dad, or aggravated because he cant keep anythi...
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What is love?
Posted Thursday December 25 2008, 11:01 pm
I was sitting in class today and I overheard my best friend telling the teacher that she loved her (as a teacher, of course). I know there are different kinds of love and different ways of loving someone but...
What is love actually? I mean, I know love is an emotion, right? What does love mean though? People say "I love you" all of the time but I have no idea what love really means now that I think of it. I think I love certain people but then what if my definition of love is wrong and, really, I have a totally different feeling toward those people than I thought?
Anyway, what is love?
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Should I move on?
Posted Thursday December 25 2008, 3:09 pm
Me and this boy was goin together for about three months. But we had broke up alot of times before, but always got back together. But then i guess i said the wrong thing to him and he just got really mad and broke up with me. We had broke up so many times before that i didn't really take it to serious. But he did, he made it seem like it was really over. I took the break up really hard and cried all the time. (we just broke up december 16) I have been hearing from people that he has been tryna get with another girl. shocker. I talked about it with him and he said that everybody was lying. so whatever. he still call me everyday and we talk all the time. last nite he told me that he loved me... I could not say it back for some reason. i can't...
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The Feeling Is Not Mutual
Posted Thursday December 25 2008, 2:10 pm
I'm a senior (male) in high school, and my friend (female) is a sophomore. We met about 2 or 3 months ago, and we've gotten fairly close. Anyway, a short time ago I learned that she had feelings for me (I'm like 98 percent sure of this).
I don't feel the same way about her. I mean, I wish I did; she's cute, funny, smart, blah blah blah. I just don't, and I've tried. Anyway, if she were to tell me her feelings, what do you think I should respond with? She already knows that I'm not into anyone, but there's the chance she doesn't believe me because no one does, for whatever reason. This would probably be over AIM. I want to remain her friend without awkwardness and such, because I do really like her.
Any help would be verrryyyyyy appreciated.
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Boys,Boys,Boys
Posted Thursday December 25 2008, 1:27 pm
Okay so im 15/f, my boyfriend is 16/m. We just started dating and well he hasn't done anything besdies makeout. Ive been fingered and gave hj/bj. He knows that too and wants to do more with me. I think its going to be weird like we makeout alot but do i like have to tell him what to do, im pretty shure he has no idea what hes doing. any way to make this less akward? or shouold i tell him what to do?
Please help!
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I Love You
Posted Thursday December 25 2008, 12:05 am
My boyfriend (20), and I (18) have been dating for almost two years. Over the few months, I've noticed that he doesn't say "I love you" anymore. He used to say it just randomly sometimes and always say it back when I said it to him. So it's just really weird that now when I say it to him, he'll just either ignore it, change the subject, or just crack a joke. So I'm just like, wtf. What do y'all think is going on?
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Um?
Posted Wednesday December 24 2008, 9:49 pm
15/f. boyfriend-15/m
My boyfriend and I see each other at least 3 or 4 times a week. Lately, all we've been doing is making out and stuff. I want to do more. I don't want to have sex, because I know we both aren't ready for it. I just want to do something to turn him on, I guess. Like, while making out and stuff. I don't want to do anything sexual, like fingering and blow jobs/hand jobs. I'm very content with just making out, but yet I want to do more? Ha, What else can I do?
Thankies. :D
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havent made out in over two years!
Posted Wednesday December 24 2008, 5:25 pm
so im 18/f.
i like my best friend, and well i know he likes me too and he's tried kissing me before BUT i've pulled away and acted like nothing because i was scared! he's only had one other girlfriend and he went out with her for three years!! so i'm scared that if i start making out or kissing him, he will think i'm horrible compared to his ex girlfriend. i haven't made out in like three years, embarassing? yes! it's becaues i am scared, it's like having your first kiss and make out again and all those fears keep rushing back. also, whats the difference between like a peck kiss and an open kiss? i know a peck kiss is like kissing someone in your family, easy right? well why and when do you do an open kiss, without tounge? gosh i fee...
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Helppp
Posted Wednesday December 24 2008, 3:47 pm
hey i need to ask something.. my boyfriend talked to my mom and said i was beautiful and im a nice and amazzing girl.. should i believe this from him.. i really love him and he really loves me.. but like he said im a good girl for him bc he needs someone like me in his life.. please help and i will rate U.. Thanks and merry christmas=)
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If a girl is intrested or not
Posted Wednesday December 24 2008, 1:21 pm
I really need help on this one.
There is this girl i have been talking to for the past 2 or 3 months, there practically isnt a day that went by where we didnt talk, she told me how she wanted to hang out and vise versa, and all of that. well we finally decide to go to a movie the other day, and keep in mind she is a quiet girl. well i had fun, it was a good moive, and she seemed to have fun, but i am not 100 % sure she did. she is kinda short with her answers to me now, but i think it might be due to the up coming christmas holiday (tomarrow). In a couple of days, I want to know if I can just come out and ask her if she is intrested, and if she would like to go out again. is that too creepy and forward. What do you think i should do?
Rob 20 & male
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two boys, angry sister HELP!
Posted Wednesday December 24 2008, 12:28 pm
im in a tough position and im lost to what i should do about it. My boyfriend of 5 months, Alan cheated on me with my cousin well i lost my virginity to him and i was in love with him. It took me several months but i found someone else.. Dylan we dated for 8 months i took his virginity everything was good. Meanwhile my cousin and Alan dated for a bout 1 year and a month and then she dumped him for a knew guy well in the back of my mind i still had feelings for Alan, hes 19, im 16, and Dylan is 16. Alan invited me over and we started talking and he was crying and all this other stuff happened and well i ended up forgiving Alan. I broke up with Dylan and he was heartbroken i mean dylan and i had our problems to the biggest was i never saw him...
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age difference...should i go or no?
Posted Wednesday December 24 2008, 12:14 pm
I've been seeing this guy for a few months now. He wants me to come with him to his brother's house this weekend to watch a game with him, his brother, and a bunch of his brother's friends. So basically it'll be me and a bunch of guys, plus maybe his brother's wife.
Here's the dilemma: This guy that I'm seeing is four years older than me. I'm 18 and he's 22. In the beginning we were both skeptical about the age thing but now it makes no difference to us. I've already met his parents and his friends and they are all really nice and seem to be fine with the age thing.
I've never met his brother before but I know that they very close with each other. His brother is 30 so most of the guys who will be there will b...
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made a promise
Posted Wednesday December 24 2008, 10:25 am
okay i promised my ex boyfriend that i wouldnt date his friend becasue he know that his friend likes me.....but im beginning to like his friend and i don't want to keep that promise and im afraid of hurting either of them. i know keeping it will be the best thing to do but i like him and i really want to see where it would go.
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how long?
Posted Wednesday December 24 2008, 12:54 am
i know that everyone is different, but i just wanted to know how long it took for anyone to get over thier first love....i went out with this guy for about a year, and i love him so much...he's always on my mind, i do try to keep busy and i'm really working at it, i know i will get there. Someone told me that it takes about 4 years. I guess it depends on the person but how lon did it take you to get over them?thank you!:D
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What to say when meeting new people
Posted Tuesday December 23 2008, 11:52 pm
17/f-- So I have this problem that I don't know how to strike up and hold a conversation with a new person. With my friends, I am very talkative, probably the most talkative in my group, because I know what is alright to talk about with them, and obviously we have alot in common/spend alot of time together so there is always somthing to talk about. And, I am not shy at all. I will just start talking to a stranger in a store. I will just start talking to them about how I like their shoes. Anything. My friends think I am crazy for this. I am not, by any definiton, a shy or nervous person. The thing is, those conversations with random strangers are like 30 sec. In and out, nice meeting you, goodbye. But say for example, I am at a party, and I ...
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up and downs
Posted Tuesday December 23 2008, 10:50 pm
I'm SO fed up with this one guy right now. he told me last year that he "loved" me and I barely knew him, and i was inlove with my best guy friend at the time who totally knew and ALWAYS gave me mixed signals, but i liked that guy for 5 years until we finally went out, and that lasted just under a month. long, heart breaking story that sometimes I still get depressed about. but anyways, the guy who "loved" me last year got pissed when he found about the relationship i was in and after it ended we started talking again because we have a class together. hes not the most attractive guy ever but he's really nice. I just always feel like I'M THE ONE making conversation, he never does. and its awkward. but good thing i just be...
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What did I do wrong? I really think I was starting to like him.
Posted Tuesday December 23 2008, 10:10 pm
I met a really great guy through a friend. I was on a trip and roomed with her and got to hang out with him everyday for about 3 days. Then, the next week I got to hang out with him for a whole day because we had to sing in a concert together. He was really sweet and I started to think he liked me. Whenever we were with everyone, he would talk to me and we'd kind of drift away from everyone else. We had some really good intellectual conversations, and we have a lot in common. He'd let me wear his sweatshirt if I was cold and hugged me a lot. I had only known him for a day and he asked me for my number. He goes to a different school, so I never see him, but we used to text each other. Then things went bad. There was a picture of us on facebo...
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going farther....
Posted Tuesday December 23 2008, 10:01 pm
okay heres the spill...hopefully you can help me out!!
I've been going out with my boyfriend, Jesse for almost 3 months now. He's really amazing and treats me so well! We've kissed and madeout but i want to go farther with him. Not all the way to having sex but farther than just making out. but he just rebels and doesnt want to. and i know he wants to respect me! but i just dont know how to let him know how to go farther! this is what ive tried...
we were watching a movie together and were holding hands i put his hand near my how do i say it privite area and he pulled his hand away. i know that he wants to respect me and my space but i want to go farther with him... and i dont want to just straight up be lik...
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