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I'm SO fed up with this one guy right now. he told me last year that he "loved" me and I barely knew him, and i was inlove with my best guy friend at the time who totally knew and ALWAYS gave me mixed signals, but i liked that guy for 5 years until we finally went out, and that lasted just under a month. long, heart breaking story that sometimes I still get depressed about. but anyways, the guy who "loved" me last year got pissed when he found about the relationship i was in and after it ended we started talking again because we have a class together. hes not the most attractive guy ever but he's really nice. I just always feel like I'M THE ONE making conversation, he never does. and its awkward. but good thing i just be random and say the most random thing to TRY to get a convo going. and i tell him [playfully] that his trademark is like one word answers and he just laughs. even if we're talking on aim, he just says haha. or soooo. when he starts the conversation. like i didnt start it, he IMed me first. and then he tells me he likes me and i tell him i do too, but we arent going out and im not into friends with benefits, so ... yeah. I'm not waiting around forever for this guy, and im really scared that nobody else will ever like me, because i dont think im pretty either, considering that im flat chested and all. but yeah ... I don't know what to do. any comments? any help? thanks.
16/f.
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If you really want this guy your gonna have to ask this guy what he really feels. He said he liked you so maybe you should bring this up. Ask if he would ever consider going out with you and if you don't want to do this you can get your friends to ask or something. The other option is asking him to go hang out or something. If he wants to go the movies with you and a couple other friends. He might feel awkward though if he is the only guy so keep that in mind. Or just go hang out somewhere. So if you want to find all this out then just ask. And you said you don't think your pretty? Don't think that, because to get a guy you don't have to be drop dead gorgeous. If this guy doesn't work out then there are plenty other guys out there. He might not be the one. But hopefully this works out for you and good luck!
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You should say, "we should hang out" or something like that. Then go to the mall or movies or something and try to get him to talk. If he doesn't, keep talking to him. Maybe he's just not comfortable with you yet.
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