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Relationship Crisis!
Okay, my Boyfriend (18) and I (15) have been dating 11 months today, (12-25-08). WE'VE flat out been through HELL! His ex girlfriend, has egged his house, threatened to kill me, I had to take the psycho to court! Me & him made it through that, and that was definately crazy!
Here lately, we fight, not over huge things, but over small stupid things. When we fight, its over stuff like me buying him something and him simply not giving me the money to do it in the first place. Well, my mother had this chat with his mother, she says he wont even let her buy him anything, which i know is true.
Earlier today, we was at his house I was opening presents, and he gets mad at his dad, or aggravated because he cant keep anything over in his garage cause it gets ruined.
Okay...tonite, he was over at my house for christmas, he bought me a promise ring and a journey necklace. We then came up to my room, i took a nap and when i woke up, he was mad?!
He's got a horrible temper, the smallest things turn him off, and I know this, he isnt dangerous or anything though.
I'm just wondering why we fight all the time, and what we can do to stop it, he's going away to college in june, and i dont want it to be the end of this, we've got our minds set to spend the rest of our lives with eachother.
I'm terribly sorry that this is so long, and it probably doesn't make any sense. Thanks for trying!
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Maybe something is really bothering. Maybe going to college scares him that the two of you will become distant. The buying him things is because he want's to be independent weather it is to show you that he can be or his parents or even your parents. Sit down with him. Tell him you want to talk to him. start off saying something like is there anything bothering you i notice you are getting upset pretty easy lately and i want to make sure your alright. let him know i know you are going away for college soon and im dreading it but i know this is just another obstical that will stregeth our relationship. you know stuff like that. if he gets mad. ask him to calm down that you are not trying to upset him. you are just courious. good luck
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Wow, sorry but read your question over, it does not say that all of this happened a year ago so don't get started on that with me young lady. For all I know, it could've happened recently.
If it doesn't involve his ex then don't put it in, if you hadn't, then my answer would've been very different.
So, sorry that I misunderstood, but it is you who are in the wrong for putting something there which really has no significance to this situation as you put in your feedback.
I suggest you re-think as to how YOU responded and see whether it was fair or not. I gave a suggestion which was based on something not relevant, but you put it there, not me so I've got to work with what I've got. As I said before, if it hadn't been there, then the answer would've been different.
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