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What did I do wrong? I really think I was starting to like him.
I met a really great guy through a friend. I was on a trip and roomed with her and got to hang out with him everyday for about 3 days. Then, the next week I got to hang out with him for a whole day because we had to sing in a concert together. He was really sweet and I started to think he liked me. Whenever we were with everyone, he would talk to me and we'd kind of drift away from everyone else. We had some really good intellectual conversations, and we have a lot in common. He'd let me wear his sweatshirt if I was cold and hugged me a lot. I had only known him for a day and he asked me for my number. He goes to a different school, so I never see him, but we used to text each other. Then things went bad. There was a picture of us on facebook, and some of our friends were joking around and commenting things like, "oooohh look at the secret lovers" and stuff like that. Then one day, I log in and we're suddenly not facebook friends anymore. I think he might have blocked me? It might have because now things are awkward because of the picture? What should I do? I really miss him and want to be friends again. He was the closest thing to a boyfriend I've ever had.
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Wow. Dont you love it when you find someone going through practically the same thing you are?? I am in the same spot as you, wondering why he is ignoring you and feeling so worthless because it feels like he is ashamed to be close to you. Yeah, it sucks. See, I have a huge crush on a boy and we would hang out and talk online all the time and I really thought he liked me. But then his friends started to make fun of "us being together" so our conversations turned into simple "hey"s and he blocked me online. When I confronted him about it he told me he tried to ignore it because he really loves talking to me but that he was just trying to getting his friends to stop making fun of him. I was so prepared to just let him go but the next day he unblocked me and it seemed like everything was great. Well I was wrong. Again. I am still currently blocked (i have been for the past 5 days) and it hurts. I wonder if it was something I did, am I annoying? Do I talk too much? Why am I not worth the teasing?but you know what...screw it. I talked to my friends and these questions changed. I realized that he is the one not worth my time, if he doesn't want to appreciate me then its his loss. He isn't worth this pain, and I only wish I knew that before he broke my heart. Now I dont know if this has helped you at all, but you sound like a great girl, and trust me, it isn't you that's not worth it, its him. You most likely haven't done a thing wrong, he is the one who screwed up. So I guess I am giving both of us advice when I say forget it. If he can't put up with the teasing for someone he supposedly cares about then he isn't worth your time or tears. Now he may unblock you and its your choice if you want to forgive him or not, but keep in mind, you deserve someone who cares about you, is that him? I hope I helped, goodluck.
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Hi,
since you're not facebook friends, you mentioned that the two of you use to text each other. Have you tried that? Why don't you try that and ask him was there something that went wrong between the two of you that you aren't aware of? If there is, what can the two of you do to work it out. Tell him that although the two of you haven't known each other for very long you enjoyed and valued his friendship. See how that works out. If he doesn't respond, I would just chalk it up to something that didn't work out. It would be pretty rude of him not to respond. It doesn't seem like you did anything wrong in the first place. I hope it works out for you.
Good luck,
ediemarie
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