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should I have sex with my bf?
Posted Wednesday February 4 2009, 4:19 pm
hello, Im 18 years old and i have a boyfriend, we've dating 8 months. I know he loves me, and I guess i love him too... He almost 20 years old,and as any guy he wants to have sex.he isnt a virgin, unlike him, im virgin. the problem is my parents, they told me not to do this till marriage. bc my countries' religion is islam(muslim). But we are not religious, its just old traditions. in addition, after few months he going to university which is 4 hours from me. i dont know should i do this? he wants to and i kind of want too, but I'm not sure and afraid...and also my dad gonna be mad on me
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what to do?
Posted Wednesday February 4 2009, 3:25 pm
okay, my friend, A, was going out with this guy J; it was a long distance relationship and it had ben going on six monthes. but last night he broke up with her because 'he couldn't handle not seeing her all the time. and everytime he did se her he didn't want to say goodbye.' but i think theres another reason he broke up with her, i think he may have cheated on her or something like that. and she's not angry or anything she's just depressed. but should i tell her that i think he cheated or not? and do you have any ideas how to cheer her up? i've done evrything i usually do but none of it's worked. any ideas.
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love bipolar
Posted Wednesday February 4 2009, 11:58 am
ive been hung up on the same guy for about 10-11 months. we dated twice, broke up, and now we're together again. i love him so much.
but lately, we've been spending almost every day together. and sometimes he gets hyper and obnoxious. and during those times, i cant wait to get away from him. but then i feel bad and get depressed. but THEN when im away from him too long, i get even more depressed because i miss him so much. and then i get happy when i see him, and then he gets hyper again,...and its just a big cycle of love bipolar.
what should i do?? i dont want to talk to him about it because i dont want to hurt his feelings, and i think the only problem here is that im either too picky or serious, and i want...
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Is he worth all this??
Posted Tuesday February 3 2009, 10:57 pm
I am 13 and female. I am sick of this crap but I couldn't be more crazy about this boy... Is that possible?? This boy (I'll call him Ryan) has pretty much taken over my brain. I feel like I'm thinking about him 24/7 but our relationship is so complicated, I will try my best to explain it. I have liked him for about a year but I only REALLY got to know him over the summer, we would talk constantly online or because we hung out with the same ppl, see eachother regularly. He started off by just being a friend I could just talk to... I dont know but I really opened up to him and I learned so much about him, his favorite animal, color, food and his biggest fear. When school started it felt like the only reason to go was to see him ( and my frien...
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Valentines Dayy?
Posted Tuesday February 3 2009, 9:59 pm
13/F
Well Valentines day is coming upp..duhh.
And i have a bf rightt. and i have no idea what to get himm. Because he's likee nerdy and stuff..and i wanna get him something nerdy but cute. haaa.
Well any helpp?
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i dont think im normal.
Posted Tuesday February 3 2009, 9:18 pm
I dont feel the same about guys anymore. And its not guys in general, its guys in my town that are in my grade and age level. I feel like none of them are mature enough for me anymore. I think their cute but i never like any of them. Im just disgusted with just about every one of them. I feel that their all players that want to just play around with girls. They are always making perverted comments, all the time. Always lieing. I want a kinda older boyfriend, like one grade ahead older. or someone my age. just someone that really shows they like me. and doesnt move to fast or pressure me. someone that hugs me tight for no reason. things like that... i just hate it because im not normal.
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what to do/valentines day
Posted Tuesday February 3 2009, 9:09 pm
Okay so no suprise, valentines day question. I have NO idea what so ever to do for my boyfriend. We've been dating about 4 months but we've been like best friends for over 2 years. We're really close but our relationship is what most would describe friendly, theres the "i love you" and stuff but its not all mushy mushy if ya know what i mean. Anyways, what should i do? we're sexually active but i think i'll have my period then. I have lingerie that he wants me to wear so i was thinkin' maybe something with that? He smokes, drinks(bad habits i know), dresses kinda gangster/skater. I want to do something taht means alot but at the same time not too much for the little time we've been dating. any advice!?
THANKS!!
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how to show that I like him?
Posted Tuesday February 3 2009, 8:47 pm
So I've known this guy since 8th grade when he moved here. We're in 11th grade now and I still like him (yeah, sad, I know).
I don't have any classes with him this year but I see him occasionally in the hallways and I frequently tend to hang out in one of his classes. He's been flirting with be pretty obviously, and I guess I've been flirting back? However, today I realized that he thinks I have something going on with another friend of mine (we don't but people like to assume otherwise). He asked today, "What's going on with you and him?" I told him nothing and that we have never and are not going out.
How can I show him that I'm interested in him as more than just a flirt without looking like a hopeless girl clinging onto him?
16/f
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Posted Tuesday February 3 2009, 7:16 pm
I met this guy and we've only hung out twice. he totally came off as interested in me and acted like he definitely wanted to see me again. after we hung out, which was such an amazing night, he hasn't really been talking to me? i mean, we dont go to the same school and we've texted a little bit, and hes been really nice and friendly in the texts, but so far ive been the one who has started the texting and we barely text anyway. the last time i saw him was a week ago. what should i do now!?!? my friend knows him and she said that he is a huge compliment to me that he even wanted to hang out with me let alone kiss me because he is really really hard to get and apparently every girl wants him. i really want to see him again and know if he is s...
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Valentines/anniversary gift?
Posted Tuesday February 3 2009, 7:16 pm
So, I've never really had a boyfriend before so I'm not very good at this whole gift giving thing. Our one month and valentine's day are both coming up and i have no idea what to get him. I was thinking of making him something but at the same time I kind of want to buy him something. I'm sure that he would like anything that I give him, but I want it to be something creative. Any suggestions are appreciated. Thanks :)
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ugh boys what else.
Posted Tuesday February 3 2009, 6:13 pm
boy i like is a man whore. [this might be long]
thing is i've dealt with man whores before so "i know" how they work if you will.. haha. anyways he messaged me on myspace and now we text eachother everyday. he asked to hang out a couple of times but i told him i dont hang out with man whores. my friends have hooked up with him before as well. i didnt like him at first but the more we talked the more i liked him.. i just dont want to hang out with him because then i would just be another girl he hooked up with. i mean i could try and restrain myself but come on now, if you like a boy usually some kiss happens. usually we have really good conversations about like how the worlds corrupt and stuff.. but today we were texting an...
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have i?
Posted Tuesday February 3 2009, 6:12 pm
14/f
ok im the one that posted this question:
http://www.advicenators.com/qview.php?q=553503
basics:
never had a boyfriend.
pretty chubby(working on it).
my friends say im pretty.
not popular.
shy/quiet unless you get to know me.
please read the question i provided in the link above, if you dont know what im talking about.
please, please, please read it.
im desperate.
recent update:
a few weeks ago we were talking on the phone and i was like i really wanna go to the movies and he was like we should go like not this weekend but the next.
we never did.
i like him so much.
but i dont want to give up....
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what happend?
Posted Tuesday February 3 2009, 6:09 pm
so i met this guy through a friend at a party and i didnt think much of him at first but then he got my number from my friend and was texting me and was like for lack of a better word obsessed with me like texting me all the time telling me how bad he wanted me and the next night i hung out with him, hooked up with him, and everything was fine then hung out with him 2 days later and hooked up with him again and again everything was fine he still texted me all the time and whatever. yesturday i hung out with him again for a few hours and hooked up with him again and went home and he didnt text me that night and i didnt think much of it but then all day today didnt talk to him so i texted him and was talking to him and asked if he wanted hang...
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stuggling with two guys, please read all this and help me!
Posted Tuesday February 3 2009, 5:10 pm
okay, i have been dating this guy(mark) for about 4 months now and i dated him for about 4 months a year and a half ago. im going to discribe him, and some things he does and how he makes me feel and stuff, and i want help if i should stay with him because, after we broke up i dated this guy(Alan) for 8 months and it was perfect.. just read on
- Mark got me to cheat on Alan with him when mark dumped his girlfriend.
- Mark cheated on me with my cousin and stayed with her for a year and a month.
- Mark wont get a job because he says " he doesn't no how to do anything" he did graduate from high school, but he has a social problem..
- Mark smokes about an 8th of weed every 2 days..
- If ...
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Most important thing among married couples
Posted Tuesday February 3 2009, 4:27 pm
What do you think is the most important? Compatibility? Understanding? Love? Destiny? Something else?
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valentines day gift
Posted Tuesday February 3 2009, 4:21 pm
16/f
boyfriend is 18
& i neeeeeeed ideas on some things to get him for valentines day, cause im cluelesss!
any fun/cute ideas?
thankkkkkkkk you
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i dont want to like her anymore... i feel like hell, i want to forget
Posted Tuesday February 3 2009, 4:18 pm
you may remember me from a week or so ago posting tons of questions :/ anyway ill make this one short. the girl that i have liked for the past month or so now really doesnt want a relationship with me, after i asked her what she wanted from me she answered with "Freindship". its happening just like it was with my best freind (whos a girl lol) she in love with another guy and sh changes her MSN name alot revolving around this guy. iv allready said that its none of my buisnss who she likes so im not saying anything... even when i do get jelous and realisation kicks in that its going no were. i'v decided that i dont want to like her like this anymore... but my mind tells me diffrently... who do i forget?? i dont want to be like this ...
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age diffrence
Posted Tuesday February 3 2009, 3:01 pm
well im 16 and i um like this guy and he is 20 and im wondering is that a big age diffrence
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I'm a player.
Posted Tuesday February 3 2009, 1:37 pm
Okay, so my friends all call me a player. Mostly beacuse I can never stay with a guy for to long, but heres the thing. I started talking to this kid, joe, and i think im really starting to fall for him. its just wierd cause im not used to being this attachted to someone.. usually when i start to get attatched, i end up making up some excuse and leave. I really dont want to do it, it just happens.. How can i overcome being a "player" and give this kid a chance ?
please hellp me, thankkkks (:
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My feelings have changed towards my best friend
Posted Tuesday February 3 2009, 12:30 pm
18/f
I have a guy best friend. We met in September and instantly bonded, we tell eachother everything. In this case, everything includes helping eachother with relationship problems. He really likes this girl and I've been helping him with what to do (ex: helping him with conversaion starters and basically just boosting his morale do actualy do something about it). I didn't think anything of it before, but recently I started feeling slightly differently towards him. I stated liking as more than just a friend. The thing is, I'm not exactly atracted to him sexually, I just really love our friendship. This is where it becomes slightly awkward; I've been having lots of dreams concerning him lately (and another guy too becau...
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