so i met this guy through a friend at a party and i didnt think much of him at first but then he got my number from my friend and was texting me and was like for lack of a better word obsessed with me like texting me all the time telling me how bad he wanted me and the next night i hung out with him, hooked up with him, and everything was fine then hung out with him 2 days later and hooked up with him again and again everything was fine he still texted me all the time and whatever. yesturday i hung out with him again for a few hours and hooked up with him again and went home and he didnt text me that night and i didnt think much of it but then all day today didnt talk to him so i texted him and was talking to him and asked if he wanted hang out tonight and he didnt respond so i dont no what to do if i should say something to him like ask what i did wrong bc its just random that all of a sudden now just stop talking to me. thanks for an advice =]
If this continues he probably just thinks of you as a piece of ass point blank. The way you make it sound it wasn't hard to get something from you not to sound like a bitch or anything.. just be careful that he aint using you. [ SHAWTY74's advice column | Ask SHAWTY74 A Question ]
laynemayhem answered Wednesday February 4 2009, 10:39 am: you're blowing this way out of proportion. its probably no big deal at all.
but you shouldnt think anything of it because A) you hooked up, right? and by that, it means either making out, oral sex, or sex without the commitment, right? (ive never hooked up before, so i dont know) or do you mean hooked up as in you just hung out?
since you guys arent committed to eachother and arent dating, you shouldnt be worried at all. if he never replies, just ask him if something is wrong, and if he doesnt answer, then i dont know. i guess its over. but like i said, there was nothing to be over in the first place,...
so just breathe easy, ok? you're obviously really cool and will find someone again soon. :)
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