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I'm a player.
Okay, so my friends all call me a player. Mostly beacuse I can never stay with a guy for to long, but heres the thing. I started talking to this kid, joe, and i think im really starting to fall for him. its just wierd cause im not used to being this attachted to someone.. usually when i start to get attatched, i end up making up some excuse and leave. I really dont want to do it, it just happens.. How can i overcome being a "player" and give this kid a chance ?
please hellp me, thankkkks (:
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i personally dont think that makes you a player. im the same way but thats because of family problems in the past. maybe its an underlying cause why you cant stay with a guy or its just a personal preference. but if you really like this guy you should give him a chance, but understand youre making a commitment and you cant just back out because youll hurt him.
just think of him as your boyfriend when you chill with him. do you like how he treats you when hes with your/his friends? is he a good guy? does he make you laugh? if you really think that you and him would make a good couple then go for it girl!
best wishes :)
x sweeethoney
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You ditch guys because you are afraid of commitment and afraid of where the relationship may lead you. I say go for it, get to know him, if he is really special you will stay with him! Dont see him ALL the time cuz you might get sick of him. Go out with friends instead of just the 2 of you so you can get to know him better and not rush into anything too intimate. And if you do start dating him don't rush things, because you might get scared and leave him adn end up regretting it. Just take things slow and remember that everything happends for a reason so if you do end up leaving this guy its ok! Cuz there will be many other men. I just ask that you treat him the way you want to be treated because KARMA is a B*tch and you dont want it coming back to btie you...lol....Take care hun. Hope all goes well for you!
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does he like you? i think you should wait it out. wait until you know how you really feel. if things aren't going so well, then don't get with him. but if things are going good, as in, you "know" you're falling for him.
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