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Foreign men
Posted Monday March 9 2009, 9:42 pm
I have been dating this man from India for a year now, but he still doesnt want to be in a relationship with me so he says. We started off as friends and moved up from there, but he cant be with me because I'm white and american, and it is socialy unacceptable in his culture. Around his friends, I have to act like we are just friends. We cant hold hands around other Indians, which is ok to me because I respect that that is how it is in India. He puts flowers in my hair (which is a big deal to Indians) and does nice things for me. Im not allowed to date other people even though he said we are not in a relationship, but he wont admit he loves me. I love him. I feel like Im around for his convinience, not mine. Am I wasting my time?
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Age Limits in Dating
Posted Monday March 9 2009, 8:12 pm
What do you think is an appropriate age limit for dating? Like how many years older should it be and how many years younger. I am 18 years old and I have come to the realization that I need to set a date age limit... so any ideas would be lovely. Thanks. =]
P.S. I rate high for good advice ;)
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after i kissed a guy, he got light headed....
Posted Monday March 9 2009, 6:03 pm
so there's this guy who's like me for a loooooooong time, and now we're finally going out. he's kissed way more girls than i've kissed boys, i have kissed, just not a lot like him. everytime we talk, he tells me how much he wants to get with me. well we finally did, and later when we were on the phone he was like, i got light headed after that kiss. i asked him why, and he said he didn't know. why do you think that happened? should i take it as a compliment, insult or neither?? help....
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getting a guy I like
Posted Monday March 9 2009, 5:46 pm
I really like this boy. He is the friend of alot of my friends that I hang out with regularly, but he does not always hang out with us because he lives quite far away even though he is in my school district. We have one class together: band. I really want to start talking to him. I am very friendly, but I just have no idea where to start. We have alot of social time in band, but it just seems too much of an akward streach just to walk over and start talking to him. I dont want to seem desperate or attention seeking, thats why I feel so akward just walking up to him and chatting him up.
Also, I think that I am nice looking and am overall pretty self-confident, but I have braces. I have never had a real boyfriend before and I ...
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Check yes or no.
Posted Monday March 9 2009, 3:08 pm
I met this really nice guy (lets call him warren) almost 5 days ago. We met at a bowling alley and I actually kinda liked his friend (Luke)- however when I found out that I was 4 years older than Luke, I knew that wouldnt ever happen because it would be illegal because he was 14 and im 18... so thats a negative. Well, Warren, Luke's friend, ended up letting me stay at his house for the night because it was too late for me to get back to my house. Warren hit on me, and then we started kissing, and well, one thing led to another. THEN, after that happened we were just talking and I found out he is my best friends cousin. I told her about me and warren hanging out and when i did she was like "Please tell me you arent messing with him.&quo...
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Feeling Unwanted <---& Boy Does It Suck
Posted Monday March 9 2009, 3:07 pm
I love my boyfriend and I've known him just about the majority of my whole life and I'm happy we are together BUT it's not enough. We barely spend anytime together except school. And we only have one out of eight classes together. I have tried telling him that it bothers me that we only spend a little bit of time together but it's like it goes in on ear and out the other. To be honest I feel unwanted and kind of unappreciated. I'm a damn good girlfriend. And lately the whole lack of quality time I've been getting is starting to irritate me to the point where I'm ready to break up with him. And yet I don't want to because I care about him but I think I deserve more. I wish I would get more from him but I'm not. Either I get it from or I'll g...
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Dating
Posted Monday March 9 2009, 10:07 am
What is a good age to let a kid date?
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Break Up
Posted Monday March 9 2009, 2:36 am
My ex and I broke up thursday 3/5 that night.. He had been talking to someone with a strange number. first told me he didnt know who it was then it was an old buddy well i found out it was a girl. he had keep asking me if i worked sunday what time was i planning on coming home for lunch etc. well i started having a gut feeling looked at his phone cut him cheating on me. and i left him the next day. I really loved this guy. i had to work the night i left. started crying at work.. i guy i talked to way before i meet my ex we started talking again.. I had strong feelings for him. the only thing we werent sure about was age. but we are okay with it. even when i dated my ex i still though about him. and i had to stop talking to him when i dated ...
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MSN
Posted Sunday March 8 2009, 11:56 pm
ive been talking to my friend, who i like, for about 3 months on msn. id say 90% of the time he used to start the conversation, but now its about 50%. which is fine whatever, but i feel like im starting it constantly then he takes about 30 minutes jsut to give a response to my 'hello.' i asked him why one time and he said sometimes hes just busy.
but yesterday he asked me to get on, and i was really busy toda and so tired when i got home, but i still got on for him. i surely thought he would IM me first, but nope stayed on for 40 minutes, not one IM, so i signed off. i dunno what to do..i started crying. yeah im a baby, but i just felt so let down. how can i handle this? do i not come on msn for a few days? or should i come o...
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"rough patch"
Posted Sunday March 8 2009, 10:46 pm
what exactly is a "rough patch" in a relationship?
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I can't take it anymore
Posted Sunday March 8 2009, 8:09 pm
Hi i'm 18 years old and I've been going out with my boyfriend for three years and the past few months haven't been the greatest I mean I just feel like we are falling apart. And just the other day I saw this guy that I use to have a huge crush on and now we have talked on the computer I few different times. I can not get this guy out of my head. I mean I can't sleep I can't hardly do anything because it hurts so much because I want to tell him how I feel but I can't stand the thought of him not liking me back and I just don't know what to do!! please help!!
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im really into him
Posted Sunday March 8 2009, 7:48 pm
well im really into this guy weve startd talkn febuary 11 but we made it official on the 20 and yesterday 03/08/09 was my first time over his house and we had a great time he told me that his heart was beating fast and that he couldnt breath and im a junior and he is a senior in high school and i think im falling head over heels for him but im scared because he is going to college please tell me what i should do
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my crush flirting with my friend. what to do??
Posted Sunday March 8 2009, 7:00 pm
You see theres this boy that i like and i like him alot. I have this class with him and like you see he always flirts with my friend. Like i know they just playing and everything and its not really a big deal but still it kinda gets to me. My friend knows i like him and like she dont flirt with him but he flirt with her and he flirts with me sometimes to. And i wonder if i should flirt with him even more, and he knows i like him at least i think he does. What can i do??
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13 years old
Posted Sunday March 8 2009, 4:33 pm
Heey . does anyone think its a bit slutty to break your virginity at 13 ?
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six month anniversary
Posted Sunday March 8 2009, 4:06 pm
I am 14f and my boyfriend is 16m. our six month anniversary is coming up soon and i want to get him something nice because hes always getting me gifts and surprising me with them and its adorable, like a bracelet, a necklace, an ankle bracelet,earrings ...so i want to do something nice for our six month. i NEVER know what to get guys for presents. i dont want to get him clothes because i never know what kind of clothes he likes. we go to the mall together and he always surprises me...so i need something else. i want to get him a picture frame with a picture of us in it but thats kind of cliche so i want something else...what do you think i should get him?! THANKYOUU<33
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Boy issues?
Posted Sunday March 8 2009, 12:47 pm
I saw a guy the other day in town and I mentioned him to my mum who works with him at college an she got his number for me, I texted him saying that he seemes really sweet and I hope he didn't mind that I had his number, but he hasn't texted back anything other than questions, he's a year older than me and when he asked for my age he didn't reply.. what does this mean? x
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14 too young to get engaged?
Posted Sunday March 8 2009, 12:29 pm
I'm fourteen, my girlfriend fifteen. We've been together for 1 year.
I love her lots and lots and I want to be with her. She wants to get engaged now, however I'd like to wait longer. I want to get engaged to her, but just not yet, maybe in a year or two's time. School will come first, i'm doing my GCSEs at the moment and I intend to go on an do 4 A levels.
Am I right to be thinking this?
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back together?!
Posted Saturday March 7 2009, 10:25 pm
okay, well me and my boyfriend broke up yesterday. but today he came to my house with his mom and they talked to my mom, but they never really said it was over. i really want to stay with him, and we broke up because he THOUGHT i was cheating on him, and he didnt have any proof. so i think he might take me back. not only that he still calls my dad is father-in-law and he is still making plans with us. for example, he's coming tomorrow to drop his sister off, and monday he's going with my dad to this auto shop. so i dont know if he really is serious about leaving me. but there is something bothering me, he's going to his ex girlfriends house tommorow, but he never really liked her... but i dont know what he would be doing there.. i dont know what to do!
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what should i do??
Posted Saturday March 7 2009, 9:33 pm
Well you see there this boy iven been liking for awhile now. I have this class wit him and like we talk and play around and stuff. you see he knewed i liked him but i dont know if he still knows i like him. Because like he always flirt with me and stuff, and if he do know that i still like him does he like me or if he just flirting with me just to flirt. And if he dont know that i like him should i say somthin or wat. But if i do i dont wont things to be awkard beteewn us.
what should i do??
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Cant get him to leave me alone!
Posted Saturday March 7 2009, 7:59 pm
Okay so i have a boyfriend currently who has been my boyfriend for over a year now, we have had some hard times but i love him with everything, Well i also have this guy friend that i have been friends with since 5th grade that likes me and he always calls me and comes over and i dont mind becuase we have been friends forever but recently him and his girlfriend broke up and he has been flirting with me like crazy and keeps trying to tell me to break up with my boyfriend i deserve someone so much better and all of this and he wont listen to me when i tell him that i dont want to leave my boyfriend and that me and him are just friends. Can someone please help me???
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