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13 years old


Question Posted Sunday March 8 2009, 4:33 pm

Heey . does anyone think its a bit slutty to break your virginity at 13 ?

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uisforukelele answered Monday March 9 2009, 11:15 pm:
Yeah. I'm 17 now, and when I think of how much I've changed since I was 13... wow. I was really stupid back then (and I probably still am stupid, but whatever). So if you are 13 and have sex... you are going to regret it. Nothing is too awesome that it's impossible to wait at least a few years and reconsider.

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Lalagurl answered Monday March 9 2009, 4:56 pm:
definetly slutty.
and whatever 13 yearold out there that isnt a virgin anymore, well... something bad needs to happen to them because they are still a child!!

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BrokenAngel answered Monday March 9 2009, 3:35 pm:
No, not slutty, just a really bad choice

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palmbebe86 answered Monday March 9 2009, 2:43 am:
I lost mine at 14. I think we all thought it was going to be something incredible but it is not always that way. I think that now a days, kids are having sex now at age 10. I think it is sad, but as far as slutty, it really depends on how proud they are of it, how many people they want to tell, and how they are as a person overall.

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NinjaNeer answered Sunday March 8 2009, 11:40 pm:
Not slutty per se... but definitely a mistake.

Sex should wait until you're ready to deal with all the consequences; not just STIs or pregnancy, but also the emotional consequences. At 13, you just don't have the coping mechanisms of a 17 or 18 year old.

Also, speaking from (good) experience, it makes a huge difference when you lose it to someone you're seriously in love with. No matter what it seems like, at 13 you don't have that kind of relationship.

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jean_nicole answered Sunday March 8 2009, 10:57 pm:
No, not slutty. Just stupid.

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thelaura answered Sunday March 8 2009, 10:12 pm:
I don't think it's slutty.
I pity them, because they weren't educated enough to realize what giving yourself at such a young age can do.

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