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Is there something wrong?
Me and my girlfriend have been talking for about 6 months. But started being gf bf about 2 months ago. Everything was going great we would talk all day. But a couple of days ago i could tell something was wrong. At first she didnt tell me when i asked but when she did she said that it was about her ex boyfriend but didn't want to tell me what exactly happened. Because she said she didnt want to worry me and that i had nothing at all to worry about. She said dont worry ill get over it in a little bit. I went to bed right after that because i didnt want to think about it anymore. The next day i apologized for letting it bother me and i told her that i trust her. But since then we havent been talking like we use to. Sometimes we do but i still get this weird feeling that somethings not right. Im trying really hard to get back to the way i thought it use to be by surprising her and letting her know how much i love her.
My question is am i over thinking? I know she loves me. Another thing recently someone she knew passed away.
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this is in regards to the comment you sent me:
i think thats its his sweet talking thats gotten to her. every girl loves to hear that, especially when more than one guy says it to her. but theres no way she could have serious feelings for him if shes never met him. so don't worry too much. i hope that answers your question.
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she probably finds herself confused in her own thoughts. she might just need some time away because she doesn't want to say anything that she might regret because she will later find out its not true. also the death might be bothering her and she just wants to be alone.
but,
if it goes on too long that might be unfair to you.
so you should definetly confront her and ask her that you really need to know whats going on because you're her boyfriend and its your job to be worried.
good luck.
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That's why dating is "dating" my friend. You are not married! A person is trying to figure out what and whom they want. This process many times produces numerous mistakes. If you love each other and enjoy being with her give her a little time. Many times these things have a way of working themselves out.
There also is a possibility that her heart is somewhere else, or somewhere in the middle. Again, a little time may sort this out.
Concerning the death of her friend, this is very difficult. Remind her that God has a plan for us all. She may just need to think things through.
GL TheMaster
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I am a woman, and I am pretty sure that she cheated on you and feels guilty. I have done this before. Im not proud of it but I know how this works and what we say. We will act our ex has done something to us really bad so it looks like they harassed us, and then say oh dont worry about it because we dont want a confrontation. Only if we are guilty will we bring it up this way, because we feel we have to kinda tell someone to get it at least half way off our chest. I'm sorry it happened to you. Women are complicated sometimes, but at least get yourself an honest one.
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well u never no they could had have met my aunt went to live in florida w/ her boyfriend and she lived in washington. livi<3
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