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im really into him
well im really into this guy weve startd talkn febuary 11 but we made it official on the 20 and yesterday 03/08/09 was my first time over his house and we had a great time he told me that his heart was beating fast and that he couldnt breath and im a junior and he is a senior in high school and i think im falling head over heels for him but im scared because he is going to college please tell me what i should do
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You have to be open and honest with him. Tell him how you feel. If you don't you may regret it down the road. If he really likes you he will listen and work things out. Communication is key in making a relationship work and/or last. Good luck hope everything works out.
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Some say that young love isn't real love but it is. I was in a similar situation too. Depending on what you yourself can handle, I would say be together as long as you can. A love had then lost, is better than no love at all. If you do end up breaking up, at least it will make you stronger for the next, and you will learn alot of things about yourself in the process! What I know now is that I could stop it right now so I don't get my heart broke, but I would've missed the dance!
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Take it one day at a time. Yes he is going to college, but that doesn't have to mean that things end there. Enjoy where you are now and getting to a more serious place in your relationship. Don't jump ahead by worrying about things that may happen in the future. Young love feels great so enjoy being in the moment. When the time comes...you and him can sit down and discuss the dynamics of the relationship and where it is going, expectations etc. For now it is best to keep it light. You don't want to turn him off by jumping too far ahead. Good Luck!
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