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Cant get him to leave me alone!
Okay so i have a boyfriend currently who has been my boyfriend for over a year now, we have had some hard times but i love him with everything, Well i also have this guy friend that i have been friends with since 5th grade that likes me and he always calls me and comes over and i dont mind becuase we have been friends forever but recently him and his girlfriend broke up and he has been flirting with me like crazy and keeps trying to tell me to break up with my boyfriend i deserve someone so much better and all of this and he wont listen to me when i tell him that i dont want to leave my boyfriend and that me and him are just friends. Can someone please help me???
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Talk to him. Let him know that this is your boyfriend and that you really like this guy. I know you don't want to lose him as a friend but if he doesn't respect your choices then he's not that great of a friend. If he's only done this once its not that big of a deal but since he keeps saying this then its time to have some talk with him. It will finally hit him if he doesn't stop he will lose you forever. So I say talk to him and hopefully it will work. That's the most you can do. Good luck and I hope everything works out for you!
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There is no magic formula here unfortunately. The only thing you can do is up the stakes. Let him know that if he does not stop this kind of childish behaviour that it will jeopardise your friendship. He really should understand that he has two choices 1. you remain friends and he respects your choices, or 2. you will no longer be friends with him.
In my opinion that is really what it comes down to. I know that it can be very hard if one appreciates the friendship, but it seems as though this is the only way he will believe you.
Good luck.
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