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got him...now what?


Posted Sunday March 22 2009, 8:10 pm

this senior at my school started looking at me in the hallways back in october and so i told his friend that i thought he was cute. nothing happened though so i figured he wasnt interested even though i knew he was shy. we would still look at each other though. so recently a few weeks ago my good friend is going out with one of his friends and said she could set us up. i was reluctant since nothing happened before but i decided to go for it. she tells her boyfriend to tell the guy (alex)that i thought he was hott and that i wanted to hang out but he didnt tell alex that it was me. i figured he would know it was me though. the weekend we were supposed to all hang out me, alex, my friend and her bf, they got in a fight so it didnt end up happ...

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Sweet things to do


Posted Sunday March 22 2009, 6:42 pm

Hi, im 16/f
i know theres cute things guys do for girls every now and then to make them feel good like flowers or sweet notes and stuff. but what can a girl do thats cute for a guy? just to show she loves him
if it helps my bf is 15, captain of the varsity football and lacrosse team. have been dating for 6 months. thanx!

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No Such Thing as A Guy Who Can...


Posted Sunday March 22 2009, 6:02 pm

I'm not new to the dating thing, however, I haven't had a billion boyfriends like a lot of people I know. I'm looking for a guy who can cook, likes grammar as much as I do, isn't afraid to cry in front of me, likes anime, horror survival video games, and will treat me right. And I don't want him to touch me or say, "you're beautiful" or anything like that.
My friends say that there's no guy like that out there. Is this true? I live in a small little hill-billy town in Michigan and so far... All I see are murders, perverts, and sporty boys. Are all guys like this? Or is it possible to meet a guy who fits my standards?
(This may not help, but I also like guys who have long hair. It's fun to flip it.)

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boyfriend problems


Posted Sunday March 22 2009, 3:38 pm

i need your guys advice on this..so this is like the millionth time hes "blown me off" he doesn't really blow me off but he has this list of chores his dad makes him do and he knows that if he doesnt do them he can't go out or anything. hes basically lazy and its starting to get to me because he always makes plans with me and then cant last minute because he didnt do his chores..what do you guys think i should do? i texted him telling him i had to talk to him...what should i say? and what do i do? i need advice thankss


16/f 17/m

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Titles can't sum this up ! its about love,yah dig?


Posted Sunday March 22 2009, 3:38 pm

Okay, so, this may be long-im sorry. But Its been on my mind for 2 years and i feel like if someone out there feels this way too, they could help me as to what to do.

2 years ago,I had a boyfriend that i really did like. He was great, we felt instantly connected. Somehow,i loved him right when i saw him...i don't know how. But back then i was shy and unhappy, so i couldn't be who i was with him-seeing as he just made me even more nervous.I recall one time,when someone actually said "All guys want is to get in your pants!" and he whispered in my ear "i would never." I knew he ment it,its just who he was. After a month or two, i wimped out and broke up with him. For reasons like-we didn't talk much,hangout...

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What is the best thing to do when you got to choose one love?


Posted Sunday March 22 2009, 3:43 am

Is it acceptable to go out with someone you known for years is he or she is married?

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sex w/ boyfriend last night... condom broke.


Posted Sunday March 22 2009, 3:10 am

my boyfriend and i were having sex friday night night (around 4 am) and we had sex about about an hour before we went for a second round. so, we were having sex for the second time. it was lasting 1000x longer then he usually does (probably because he cummed in the last hour). we were having sex. and i felt the condom break. so he thrusted ONCE. RIGHT AWAY, i got up and told him it broke. he took it off and we saw the hole at the top. so we stopped. we were done for the night. i have been freaking out ever since, unable to stop thinking about it.

some things:
well, i have been peeing ALOT today. but i think thats because i drank alot of fluids today haha.

here are some questions:
do you think i c...

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Does she like me?


Posted Saturday March 21 2009, 9:38 pm

16/m
There's a girl in one of my classes that I like. We always talk and she smiles and laughs a lot. We say hi and talk in the halls all the time.
BUT...sometimes I'll message her on facebook and we don't really talk that much. I also heard her say to another girl she doesn't want a relationship at the moment (she just broke up with her bf not that long ago.) So does she like me? Should I ask her out?
I'm really confused!!!

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some tricks


Posted Saturday March 21 2009, 5:58 pm

I was wondering if any of you ladies here can give me some of your best flirting tricks. The situation is still at it's beginning. I work for my local newspaper and so does he. We work in separate departments so we never interact unless I have to give him some documents or pass on the information architecture for a new page or so..... anyyywayy..... there is looking and stuff but i need precise down-to-the-last-detail information! i catch his gaze but never ever on a stalk-y way and he seems to respond... HE IS VERY VERY VERY SHY though i can tell... not the type of shy the stutters if spoken to but kind of like me, he'll seem so cool and nonchalant like nothing is wrong but radiates soooo much tension if i am in his vicinity but not talki...

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kinda long but I need adive about a boyy


Posted Saturday March 21 2009, 3:43 pm

I'm seventeen year old girl.
Here we go, there is this boy Mike who is friends with my friends. I met him a while ago, but never really got to know him. That is until last Saturday. That night he and I were hanging out with my sister, and her bf another girl and two other guys. He and I talked most of the night. We did a little flirting. Every time he'd look over at he he'd smile, and I'd smile back. We sat in the car together we went places, he put his arm around me. We played a little game where we flicked a bottle cap back and forth to each other. When I was about to go home, I mentioned I wasn't tired so he suggested I text him, so he gave me his number we talked the rest of the night till I fell asleep. We hung out the next ...

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my teen marriage [15]


Posted Saturday March 21 2009, 3:22 pm

I am fifteen years old, female. I am not in any relationship. I have random, strange, out there ideas, im pretty spontaneous. Im a pretty opposite person, meaning i take either one or the other extreme. example relating to this, i will either take a long time to romantically like someone or i will like them really fast. its always one or the other with me, not in the middle. I feel like when i get older im either going to take long to get married or get married spontaneously to a guy that i havent known very long. That will just result in multiple marriages. But to get to the main idea of this, a little while ago it randomly came to me that I WANT TO GET MARRIED, and NOW. I know it sounds stupid, because im young and dum and not even wi...

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Crushes


Posted Saturday March 21 2009, 1:00 pm

help! there is this guy in old my class who sometimes seems like he likes me and sometimes it seems like he ignores me. when older girls are not there we talk about like the weekend and things like that. sometimes he even asks me for things he already has. my friend admitted that she kinda likes him. i told my friend that i had his email. she told me to tell him i like him but its not that easy for me. how do i approach him. i am really confused. i am a female and i am 13

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Is forever real ?


Posted Saturday March 21 2009, 12:52 pm

Okay so I'm 14 and my boyfriend is too. And I absolutely love him ! He makes me so happy and I never felt this way about a guy before. Like he's the first guy I lasted half a year with and I'm planning to stay with him longer. But we promised each other to stay together forever but I'm just scared that it won't last. I mean everything is perfect and we did have several arguments but we came through. But does forever really happen? I'm the type of girl who can stay faithful to a guy for a long time. And he is too but do you think forever is ever going to happen?

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Long distance relationships


Posted Saturday March 21 2009, 10:43 am

I can't flirt or ask out guys in my town, but I'm totally fine with guys from like, two towns away. Is there something wrong with me?

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mystery boy


Posted Saturday March 21 2009, 6:54 am

f/19 i go to uni doing my second year. theres this guy that started uni on his first year that i see around the campus. i dont no but we seem to ALWAYS glance at eachother whenever we notice that one another is ther.i dont no who he is or what degree hes doing or anything hes just this boy that walks around campus and looks at me he hasnt smiled at me yet and i havent at him either i dont no if he likes me but i think with all that glancing at eachother i have a major crush on him. im just afraiid to put myself out there and have him not like me or maybe he looks at all the girls and i just think he does it to me.should i wait till he smiles or says hi to me first or should i smile at him first or make a move i dont no what to do i dont eve...

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What am I doing wrong!!!


Posted Saturday March 21 2009, 3:07 am

16/m
Hi well my problem is that I can't ever keep a relationship going every time we breek up within the few weeks or days I can't ever be happy, the other week I asked a girl out I thought we were doing well I was doing everything living it up enjoying my time with her, berly a week and she broke up with me... Why would this happen to me everytime especially this time I really like her I did everything differnt yet I failed, I was once told that I'm the type of guy who usually in those chick flicks gets the girl in the end I never believed it but now I think I'm beginning to understand it, it meant for me to last with a girl I would have had to been through a breakup with her meaning that this would be our second time going out, sou...

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I hav a crush and do not know if she feels the same way.


Posted Saturday March 21 2009, 2:45 am

Ok I am Blake (15,sophomore) I play football and am in honors classes also important i have never had a girlfriend before that was more than a friend,and need help with a serious problem. I have a friend we have been friends for about 2 years, and i have never felt so attracted to a person in my life. We had many of the same classes before I moved a few weeks ago(a big source of my problem). It was always a joy to talk to her. We both shared honors classes digital imaging and more. She was perfect her personality her smile everything. Then my mom says we're moving and i almost die from the shock right after I moved I felt instantly depressed almost as if there is no meaning to life anymore. I have kept in touch with her since I moved by Tex...

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Flirting...


Posted Saturday March 21 2009, 1:55 am

17f.We broke up about a week ago, but I couldn't stand to be apart from him, and he has openly said that he would want to get back together. The reason I left the relationship is because I have a deep rooted fear of commitment among other things (he does drugs, smokes, drinks, and is often gloomy and down). So we continued to be friends as if nothing had happened, meanwhile trying to forget what we had been through. But I don't think it ever really ended, because everytime i see him and am around him there is something there that makes me want to be with him. But I keep trying to convince myself that I can't be with him because I don't want to. And that is half true because when we broke up, I definitely thought it was over for good. I told...

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normal?


Posted Friday March 20 2009, 10:37 pm

i love sex i mean i really love it i dont do it but i watch it on the computer im over 21. do you think its normal?

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I MISS HIM!


Posted Friday March 20 2009, 4:38 pm

I'm met him in detention......

when i walked in the room it was like time moved a little slower, just like the movies.he was so beautiful and i couldn't help but stare. he was wearing black, his favorite color, like he always does.
I felt an immediate connection with him. Every time our eyes met in the dead silence it was like a shock of electricity.
he's a freshman I'm a freshman, but of corse, we have no classes together because thats how REALITY works. so when we got to leave i let it go knowing nothing would ever happen.


All i could do was think about him and wonder. You'd think for people in the same class in the same school we'd see each other. A couple of weeks later... i saw him. h...

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