I was wondering if any of you ladies here can give me some of your best flirting tricks. The situation is still at it's beginning. I work for my local newspaper and so does he. We work in separate departments so we never interact unless I have to give him some documents or pass on the information architecture for a new page or so..... anyyywayy..... there is looking and stuff but i need precise down-to-the-last-detail information! i catch his gaze but never ever on a stalk-y way and he seems to respond... HE IS VERY VERY VERY SHY though i can tell... not the type of shy the stutters if spoken to but kind of like me, he'll seem so cool and nonchalant like nothing is wrong but radiates soooo much tension if i am in his vicinity but not talking to him... so basically he's so composed when talking to me but we're both a little awkward if we're in the same room but not interacting. i am not saying he (or I!) are not nervous talking to each other. oh my god no! that can't be farther from the truth! my stomach flips every single time and i don't know about him but i could imagine his too... the thing is i don't know what to do... I'd rather flirt non verbally than actually talking (i don't want to make the first move)... ps when we do talk its only strictly about work! i.e hi did mr boss leave the new files for me. Thank you. bye. and that's about it... a couple of times before there were situations where he flirted but that was it.
He's physically attracted (and i am sure he knows i am too!) what are some flirting tips suitable for this situation??? thank you!
[ Answer this question ] Want to answer more questions in the Relationships category? Maybe give some free advice about: Love Life? Ashumms answered Friday March 27 2009, 2:57 am: 1. Pull out your lip balm/gloss/whatever you wear on your lips, catch his eye and apply. It'll make him think about kissing you.
2. Reach up with both hands to fix your hair, it straightens your back, pulls back your shoulders and juts your chest out ever so slightly. Trust me, he'll notice the swell, but don't worry, it's not slutty.
3. The next time you hand him a document, barely touch his hand, and wait an extra second or two before you let go of the paper, look him in the eye and smile. [ Ashumms's advice column | Ask Ashumms A Question ]
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