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No Such Thing as A Guy Who Can...
I'm not new to the dating thing, however, I haven't had a billion boyfriends like a lot of people I know. I'm looking for a guy who can cook, likes grammar as much as I do, isn't afraid to cry in front of me, likes anime, horror survival video games, and will treat me right. And I don't want him to touch me or say, "you're beautiful" or anything like that.
My friends say that there's no guy like that out there. Is this true? I live in a small little hill-billy town in Michigan and so far... All I see are murders, perverts, and sporty boys. Are all guys like this? Or is it possible to meet a guy who fits my standards?
(This may not help, but I also like guys who have long hair. It's fun to flip it.)
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I was ok right up util "I dont want him to touch me or say "You're beautiful"
You are never going to find a guy who is OK with having no physical contact with a girl he is dating.
Honestly, your list is a bit shallow, long hair and liking anime aren't exactly high on most people's lists for "truely compatible"
Murderers, perverts, and sporty boys? Really? You didn't give anyone any kind of clear sense of whats wrong with these guys that you don't like them, or do you somehow live in a town where close to 50% of the population has committed murder.
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Most likely you'll find a guy with 7/10 or 8.5/10 qualities you're looking for (living where you do is one of them) and you'll have to decide if you are going to settle, try to change those last two or three qualities to fit you, or wait for mr. perfect.. Welcome to dating!
Oh, and did I mention that with each person you date, the list of things you look for will grow longer, as will the list of things you don't want? The problem is that most of the things you listed are not standards (educated, wealthy, romantic, experienced, etc..), they're preferences(tall, tan, enjoys picnics).
The bottom line is that there is more to dating than check-listing the things you want. Passion and compatibility will weigh in, and so will a million other factors. So, yes, there are plenty of guys out there that like anime, play video games, have long hair, and cry. In fact, i'm pretty sure that's anyone born between 1990 and 2000. Don't get discouraged, you'll find SOMEONE that will work, but as they say, "you'll never find it if you're looking for it". You might find that one of those sporty short-haired perverts actually plays Resident Evil, makes a mean lasagna and knows how to treat a girl right.
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You can most likely find all but the not saying your beautiful being a guy myself we feel like we're helping you emotionally we tell you that when you are sad or we are trying to be affectionate... Also the touching thing What if hes tryin to give you a hug or trying to make you feel better you really don't want that feeling of embrace when you are down?
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