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my teen marriage [15]
I am fifteen years old, female. I am not in any relationship. I have random, strange, out there ideas, im pretty spontaneous. Im a pretty opposite person, meaning i take either one or the other extreme. example relating to this, i will either take a long time to romantically like someone or i will like them really fast. its always one or the other with me, not in the middle. I feel like when i get older im either going to take long to get married or get married spontaneously to a guy that i havent known very long. That will just result in multiple marriages. But to get to the main idea of this, a little while ago it randomly came to me that I WANT TO GET MARRIED, and NOW. I know it sounds stupid, because im young and dum and not even with anybody but the whole idea of it sounds so appealing right now, at a young age. Then when im a bit older like 22, thats the time to party and date to get to know people and few years from that get to know people to find a husband. I just kind of wanted to know about why i feel this way, about other young peoples marriages if its your own or someone you knows' personal experience.
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don't worry about it. many teens feel the same way to you. young marriages appeal to many because it just seems to romantic. and it also might be your want to be in a realationship resulting in you wanting to get married so early. just let these feelings take their course, hopefully you won't do anything you regret. and when your hormones die down you'll know wha you really want and it's probably not to get married at 15.
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Honestly, it's hormones. When you're a teenager, your hormones are all in a frenzy and kind of make your brain think ridiculous, out there things. Kind of like having a baby, or getting tattoos when you're not old enough.
Your hormones can sometimes make you think that you're old enough, and mature enough to handle adult situations which are why kids these days are having sex & children so young. Not only that, but they're in a rush to grow up & be adults because they think they can take care of themselves, when they can't. I'm sure there are other people like you who haven't found a middle ground to dating yet. And why are you so upset over it? You're 15, you're young still.. there's no need to be a professional at dating.
I think you should just take a step back & really look at yourself. If you're thinking about marriage already, then you need a serious reality check. Marriage is not for children & there's a reason why the legal age to wed is 18. But really, it's just your hormones so you're not very different from other kids out there around your age.
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you feel this way due to ur hormones... when your a teenager you think like that thats y u hear so many ladies who are getting married saying "iv been planning my wedding since i was 15" its natural your at that stage where you want to hurry up and grow up and become an adult then once youv hit 19 youll b thinking naaa i wanna party alittle more before i get married hope this helpped
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