Free AdviceGet Free Advice
Home | Get advice | Give advice | Topics | Columnists | - !START HERE! -
Make Suggestions | Sitemap

Get Advice


Search Questions

Ask A Question

Browse Advice Columnists

Search Advice Columnists

Chat Room

Give Advice

View Questions
Search Questions
Advice Topics

Login

Username:
Password:
Remember me
Register for free!
Lost Password?

Want to give Advice?

Sign Up Now
(It's FREE!)

Miscellaneous

Shirts and Stuff
Page Backgrounds
Make Suggestions
Site News
Link To Us
About Us
Terms of Service
Help/FAQ
Sitemap
Contact Us


Viewing Questions

Love Life
Romance a mess? Welcome to the club! Ask your question here.


View: Search Options...

not good enough?


Posted Friday May 15 2009, 9:12 am

lately ive been feeling empty..useless and not good enough.
theres days when im like really happy and then just toally depressed
its mostly guy troubles i guess.
i havnt had a proper bf/gf relationship with a guy in ages everytime it gets near that stage with someone like something happens.
i was meeting up and hanging out with this one guy for a while and he seemed really nice at first then i found out after a while it was clear he was only interested in just sex and afterwards i found out he was a stoner.so i stopped texting and hanging out with him then i seen him with another really stunning girl and it bothered me although i know it shouldnt have.
then theres another guy that ive known for ages and re...

[ Answer Question | View Answers (2) ]

whats my problem? cant even ask him to hangout..


Posted Thursday May 14 2009, 11:58 pm

18- female

i'm not the quite girl, i'm one who likes to go out and do things and i have alot of confidence and a high self esteem BUT there is one problem with me, i am SO SO SO scared of getting rejected, about anything. yeah i know, who isnt afriad of getting rejected but my phobia is horrible. i can't even text one of my good guy friends (who i also have a crush on) to ask if he wants to hang out because i'm worried he will be like "well i'm going to do this..." even though we had this big talk and he was like well if you want to see me just tell me and i was like well of course i want to see you since i dont get to anymore and he was like alright just let me know when! and thats the problem, i can't get the cour...

[ Answer Question | View Answers (2) ]

songs


Posted Thursday May 14 2009, 11:02 pm

what are some really cute love songs ?

[ Answer Question | View Answers (6) ]

black boyfriend


Posted Thursday May 14 2009, 10:33 pm

15/f/cuabn

okay so my boyfriend and i had something going on for the past like 3 months, but we finally made us offical about a week or so ago. so my parents found out about me and my bf cause my dumb ass brother told my mom, now shes SUPER pissed at me cause obviously shes racist to me going out with a black guy (she doesnt care about black friends) and i dont know what to do cause she told me i better not be with him, and i better stay away from him cause if not shes gonna call the cops and all this bulshit, and she just so mad and shes like how are you going to ruin your life like that and all this crazy crap, and tomarow i have to have a talk with her and my dad about it. and im super nervous cause i dont know what they a...

[ Answer Question | View Answers (2) ]

losing a guy then coming back.


Posted Thursday May 14 2009, 9:00 pm

i'm not really asking too much for advice, but more of opinions and what you guys think. so heres my story (17f&17m):

i dated this guy for 8 months and we broke up the last week of april...he said he doesn't have the same feelings for me. however, we went to prom together and i was laying on this guy cause i wasn't feeling good and he was off doing his own thing...and he got upset at me for that...we both decided that itd be best for us not to talk until summer starts (which is in like a month from now) then he wants to start hanging out again as friends and he said "if its meant to be, it'll be". we started going out during the summer of last year and i was thinking of doing something cute when we hang out to r...

[ Answer Question | View Answers (1) ]

I feel like I just may be unable to meet guys.


Posted Thursday May 14 2009, 8:18 pm

I go to an all-girl school, so, naturally, this makes it a tad harder to meet guys. This still doesn't make it normal that I know no guys because every girl I know talks about guys, guys, and more guys.
Anyway, I have issues with friends. We don't hang out on the weekends because they don't invite me and I feel unwanted. So, people often offer the advice "Meet a guy through your girl friends!" It doesn't apply here because I really don't have real girl friends.
The thing is, I feel so damn empty and I really can't stand it. I don't know where to meet a guy. I don't even know how to make friends. And to top this all off, I am really overweight. I mean really, I could lose 100 lbs and be normal weight, or sligh...

[ Answer Question | View Answers (2) ]

pupils


Posted Thursday May 14 2009, 3:20 pm

like when a guy fancies you, do his pupils get bigger? and is it ALWAYS like that ? cause like im scared this guy doesnt like me cause his pupils stayed small :/ but we werent really that near, there was like 4 feet between us. :/

[ Answer Question | View Answers (3) ]

Asexual Boyfriend?


Posted Thursday May 14 2009, 2:40 pm

Is it possible for a guy to cum from some sort of sexual stimulation, but not be mentally aroused/feeling what their penis is feeling?

I have been with my boyfriend of two years, and I ( a month or so ago) wanted to start experimenting in the handjob/ feeling each others' genitals department. Obviously I didn't want to do anything he didn't want to do. So I would ask him a lot if he was interested in that or whatnot, until at one point he said he would be okay with it. I always felt that it would be wrong to do something sexual he wasn't totally into, and would mention was that okay? That I want to do something you are not also really excited about doing? Too the point where maybe I was asking too much and should have just g...

[ Answer Question | View Answers (2) ]

wanted back...


Posted Thursday May 14 2009, 11:33 am

my ex and i broke up a couple weeks ago. almost a month soon. but i want to be with him because i know we should be. his bday is coming up to, his 21st. he wants us to date other ppl and see where it leads us but i dont want to date anyone else because it doesnt seem right and he told me not to wait for him but i am. i guess i am just waiting because every other guy i see doesnt seem that great to be with. im picky! but i want him back and in a way win him over. i know it sounds dumb but i do. so any ideas? of maybe what i can do for his bday without being there or for him to keep showing him i am waiting for him and i care. he lives outta state but will be back next week and back in june for good. i already went down to where he lived and ...

[ Answer Question | View Answers (2) ]

15 yr old in need of advice!


Posted Thursday May 14 2009, 8:36 am

Alright, ill just cut this short and get to the point:



Well i am 15 years old, my boyfriends 15 years old. We both go to the same school. Started going out about 7 months ago + have been since then. We have one of the best fricken relationships i have ever witnessed in my life. I do NOT know what i would be like without him in my life. I love him with all my heart, so much that no one can understand that except me + him. But i have been grounded and havent gotten to see him on the weekends at all for about 3 months now. (Except i see him at school, but still) And usually if that happened with someone else, they would have broken up with me cause they cant wait for me to be ungrounded. But him, no, he has been ...

[ Answer Question | View Answers (4) ]

I like someone...but...


Posted Thursday May 14 2009, 2:49 am

I like this guy I have been really good friends with..and we text and chat ALL the time...he has told me many times that I am hot and pretty and he likes talking to me...just recently he told me and ONLY me that he was moving and he wanted to be in a relationship before he moved..but he likes another girl. Should I give up on him?

[ Answer Question | View Answers (5) ]

19 year old slut?


Posted Thursday May 14 2009, 1:39 am

I'm 19 years old. I grew up with a very stable life. My parents are happily married, always have been. I'm close with both of them. They spoil me, care about me, and love me more than anything. I'm from a upper middle class family, pretty, smart and have a lot going for me.

The thing is, alot of guys have realized that and I have had attention from them ever since middle school. I lost my virginity at 14 and loved sex ever since. I refuse to count the number of guys I have slept with but I'm sure it is well over 30.

This is my deapest darkest secret and lately it has been eating away at me. nobody knows about this and I can't stop thinking about it. I don't know why I've slept with so many people...it just, h...

[ Answer Question | View Answers (4) ]

Too obsessed with his past


Posted Wednesday May 13 2009, 10:46 pm

I am 19, dating a 20 year old, and he is my first boyfriend. Not only that, but my first kiss, my first love, my first sex, my first everything. However, for him it is a different case. He has already told numerous girls that he loves them, and he has had sex with 11 other girls beside me within a 3 year time period (he was only in a serious relationship with 3 of those).

I feel bad, because we have been dating for 1 year 5 months but I STILL can not get over this. It disgusts me sometimes, makes me feel sad that I'm not his only, and makes me wish I had someone with less of a sexual past. People on other advice forums have constantly told me to get over myself, but the thing is it is easier to say than do. I would want so ba...

[ Answer Question | View Answers (4) ]

dated ex's friend within 4 months


Posted Wednesday May 13 2009, 8:45 pm

so i dated this guy, lets say A.. we dated for a year and it was love, we both were very much in love with each other, we were like each other's firsts and all that. but then he had to move overseas for university, and i was all heartbroken for a couple of months. but then i started talking to one of his childhood friends, we all went to the same school and within a month of talking to A's friend, lets say B, i started to like him. and this was like 4 months after A and i broke up. we barely talked, i kinda said things i shouldn't have and it was just very bad and not exactly what i had in mind after our relationship. and so with B, he really liked me and we started dating, for about 2 months, then i had to leave too. i still really like hi...

[ Answer Question | View Answers (2) ]

Lewd Battery


Posted Wednesday May 13 2009, 7:47 pm

How long do you go to jail with 20 counts of lewd battery (statutory rape) in Florida?

[ Answer Question | View Answers (2) ]

seeing my long time crush saturday!!!!


Posted Wednesday May 13 2009, 4:56 pm

this weekend i am going to one of my best friend's party. alot of people from my old school are going that i havn't seen in a year or two. especially this guy anthony who i really liked and we flirted and stuff a while ago but we havn't spoken in about a year. when i see him i dont know how to act or say. i still really like him. any advice??? please let me know

[ Answer Question | View Answers (2) ]

I Dont Know What To Do!!


Posted Wednesday May 13 2009, 4:15 pm

I like this guy alot and he likes me alot too. The thing is he has had alot of girlfriends and i have never had a boyfriend before. We have been talking for like a week and he wants to go out with me but im scared. Im scared because i know how he is he gets mad over stupid things and i dont want to get hurt. Today i found out that he was staying after school to talk with his ex to see if they could get back together. I dont know what to do becase i am so upset about it. I want to go out with him but at the same time im scared to. THANKS FOR YOUR HELP!!!!!!

[ Answer Question | View Answers (2) ]

will he care


Posted Wednesday May 13 2009, 11:11 am

basically i have met a guy that i really like, and really likes me, and i am sure that we will be dating soon. thing is i am a virgin and i know he isn't. he doesnt know this, will he care if i am?

[ Answer Question | View Answers (5) ]

does he like me ?????


Posted Wednesday May 13 2009, 6:55 am

hi guyz
1stly i am 16/f
basically i`m confused..i know this guy who i really like & he has not actually said he likes me, even though we have kissed quite a few times ! he was alwayz texting me asking how i am, saying im beautiful, funny ETC and can`t wait until he sees me again & now he doesn`t text me as much. he has still text me but he doesn`t seem as interested in me. does he like me ?? my friend thinks he might want me to make the effort idk i wondered wat you guyz thought

thanx <3 M

[ Answer Question | View Answers (2) ]

What does this phrase mean?


Posted Wednesday May 13 2009, 4:22 am

I hear it in songs, poems, and in everyday conversations among friends.

What does it mean to "wear your heart on your sleeve?"

I feel dumb for asking.. but anything would be good.

Thanks.

[ Answer Question | View Answers (3) ]
Recent popular questions:
Want to give advice?

Click here to start your own advice column!


All content on this page posted by members of advicenators.com is the responsibility those individual members. Other content © 2003-2025 advicenators.com. We do not promise accuracy, completeness, or usefulness of any advice and are not responsible for content.

Attention: NOTHING on this site may be reproduced in any fashion whatsoever without explicit consent (in writing) of the owner of said material, unless otherwise stated on the page where the content originated. Search engines are free to index and cache our content.
Users who post their account names or personal information in their questions have no expectation of privacy beyond that point for anything they disclose. Questions are otherwise considered anonymous to the general public.

eXTReMe Tracker