I like this guy alot and he likes me alot too. The thing is he has had alot of girlfriends and i have never had a boyfriend before. We have been talking for like a week and he wants to go out with me but im scared. Im scared because i know how he is he gets mad over stupid things and i dont want to get hurt. Today i found out that he was staying after school to talk with his ex to see if they could get back together. I dont know what to do becase i am so upset about it. I want to go out with him but at the same time im scared to. THANKS FOR YOUR HELP!!!!!!
hear2listen answered Wednesday May 13 2009, 5:23 pm: I no this may be hard to hear, but if a guy scares you STAY AWAY!!! If you are ever afriad of a guy, but still have feelings for him, run the other way.
You can read this guy pretty well, he will hurt you and you know it. He is not good for you! First of all, you are afraid of getting hurt. If you knew that the car you were getting into was going to be in a harmful car accident would you still get in? No, because you know you would get hurt, just like this guy will almost definitely hurt you. Secondly, he has had many other girls, and you haven't had a boyfriend at all. Think about it. When you start dating don't go for someone that is an expert at relationships. Chances are, he will play you. Thirdly, he is trying to get back together with his ex! He asked you out, and now he wants the other girl again. Give up on him. You deserve better. [ hear2listen's advice column | Ask hear2listen A Question ]
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