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I like someone...but...
I like this guy I have been really good friends with..and we text and chat ALL the time...he has told me many times that I am hot and pretty and he likes talking to me...just recently he told me and ONLY me that he was moving and he wanted to be in a relationship before he moved..but he likes another girl. Should I give up on him?
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I know everyone else is telling you to say how you feel but I personally wouldn't bother
He is moving
and he already likes somebody else.
he may end up hurting you in 2 ways.
Either - He'd hurt you because he'd reject you and go with this other girl OR
- he'd hurt you because he'd go out with you but you'd have no idea where his feelings or head lies because he can't just STOP feelings for the other girl he claimed to like. That isn't possible
If I was you I'd wait for somebody else who isnt moving, and can focus their feelings and attention on you. and only you.
good luck.
PS - wherever he is moving, there could be potential girls you wouldn't even know about..sometimes guys just can't help themselves. I mean look at him now - crushing on you and another girl whilst you can actually see whats going on.
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You definitely need to tell him how you feel. Ask him "If he likes another girl, why should you go out with him?" Communication is key and just tell him how you feel.
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I agree that you should tell him how you feel. But if he maintains his liking for the other girl, you should give up on dating him. You also need to think about how you're going to feel when he moves and you have to break up. You don't want to get too close to him, then have him move. It's odd to me that he wants to be in a relationship when he's moving anyway. Make sure it's not just a sexual thing (unless you want that)
Good luck,
Darby(:
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I concur. Talk to him, then tell him how you feel.
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You should never give up, you should talk to him. Tell him how you feel, and that you want to be that relationship. Unless he means a sexual one, you don't want that probable, cause that can hurt and cause alot of damage. So find out what he wants in his last relationship, and then if it sounds like a good idea jump on it. He probable does like you like that, but doesn't speak up cause he isn't sure how you feel.
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