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not good enough?
lately ive been feeling empty..useless and not good enough.
theres days when im like really happy and then just toally depressed
its mostly guy troubles i guess.
i havnt had a proper bf/gf relationship with a guy in ages everytime it gets near that stage with someone like something happens.
i was meeting up and hanging out with this one guy for a while and he seemed really nice at first then i found out after a while it was clear he was only interested in just sex and afterwards i found out he was a stoner.so i stopped texting and hanging out with him then i seen him with another really stunning girl and it bothered me although i know it shouldnt have.
then theres another guy that ive known for ages and reallyy like i kissed him once too and i thought it was gonna go somewhere cos he used to text me all the time but then all of a sudden he just stopped and got distant and it made me feel like crap.
I was on his bebo (like myspace) one day and there were so many comments from loadss of girls.
i hate feeling like a need a bf or guy to be happier but its just getting me down lately that i seem to attract all the wrong guys.
i keep asking myself whats wrong with me?
i just dont know what to do sometimes i just feel like im stuck in a rut and if i go out with my friends and we see couples and stuff i get jealous.
ive been trying to focus on other things in my life but it almost always finds someway to get me down.
has anyone any advice?..or has felt or does feel how i do right now?
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I know how it feels to be desperate for a boyfriend. I've been single so long... it's sad, really pathetic really. But then realized; I can have fun without a boy, I have fun and enjoy life without a guy. You can too. With the right attitude, you can feel happy and enjoy your life without a boyfriend.
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Hey
everyone goes through this. i fact in some ways i dont think people stop going through this.
and yes i do feel that way right now
tears help... baths with lots of bubbles, and teddybears. hobbies. me-pampering-time. reading. shopping.. stuff that generally makes you happy.
but to be honest the best thing i find tht cheers me up.. is when i hang out with my guy mates... so i know that i AM accepted by guys...(jus make sure you hand with the guys you like as friend TOO MUCH to ever date) =)
what i started doing a few months back was flirt with alot of guys n stuff, be single but flirt with them n stuff. altho now im in the problem of fightin them off but hey it does make you feel so much better
but remember no-one is useless!
hope i gave you a few ideas
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