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dated ex's friend within 4 months
so i dated this guy, lets say A.. we dated for a year and it was love, we both were very much in love with each other, we were like each other's firsts and all that. but then he had to move overseas for university, and i was all heartbroken for a couple of months. but then i started talking to one of his childhood friends, we all went to the same school and within a month of talking to A's friend, lets say B, i started to like him. and this was like 4 months after A and i broke up. we barely talked, i kinda said things i shouldn't have and it was just very bad and not exactly what i had in mind after our relationship. and so with B, he really liked me and we started dating, for about 2 months, then i had to leave too. i still really like him and i think he does too, he says im his first love, and he really did LOVE me!
now, i just feel kinda lost and i know what i did was wrong, im busy running away from it and pretending it never happpened. but it did. and so i dont know what to do.
B and i decided not to tell A ever! because it would ruin our relationships with him and he'd be miserable. please help me, im so confused and i feel guilty too! most definately! :(
thanks.
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I know someone already answered this question but, I personally think, from reading this, that you and B should just be together. You seem to want that and from what you are saying so does he. Don't run from it. You only live once, and yes being a good person is important, I think, but you cannot please everyone. Also, if you tell A, which I agree with the last person you should tell the truth because it'd be better if A heard it from you not someone else, A should be happy for you. He shouldn't be keeping you from happiness in anyway. If he asked you to wait for him that's wrong. If you two broke up and he is over seas, and there is no commitment anymore, then you should move on with your life. If it happens to be that it's with B, then go for it! Everything happens for a reason, and you should do what is best for you and what makes you happy... That's just my thoughts on it though, I may have it wrong because I don't know you. Good luck, either way you choose.
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The best thing...even though it may come between people...is always tell the truth. If you feel guilty, talk to A about your feelings for B. If B really loves you, he should stand up to A for you, even if he isn't your friend anymore, you should tell him.
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