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3 years- wasted?
Posted Thursday June 25 2009, 3:06 pm
ive been with the same guy for 3 years. im 16, almost 17. weve been incepreibal for years and nothing could keep us away from eachother. weve broken up a few times, and evertime we always come crawling back to eachother. but last week, he told me he doesnt feel the same anymore and wants to be friends until he finds out what he wants. this is becasue weve been fighting like crazy, and things arent the same anymore. i love him so much its unreal, and i told him today im ready to be with him, and he said he doesnt want a girlfriend right now and wants to be single. i dont know what to do like i just feel like dying. ive always been a true believer of love, but this is killing me inside. we have the type of relationship where if i go somewhere...
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my guy friend likes me
Posted Thursday June 25 2009, 3:03 pm
ok so theres this guy who moved to my school at the begining of last year. ever since then we have been great friends (even though he is a year younger than me). anyways, so after a while i started getting feelings for him but i stopped having those feelings along time ago. And now he keeps asking me out and everything. He even tried to write a song for me, which was really bad but really sweet too. and now that he started having feelings for me it has like ruined our friendship. I mean now when ever i try to just hang out with him he thinks its a date. any advice???
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I'm really nervous!!
Posted Thursday June 25 2009, 2:19 pm
Right, I've just been asked out by a really cute guy but I'm really nervous and dont know what to do on the date, so can you please help me with mervs!!!
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i love my best guy friend
Posted Thursday June 25 2009, 1:16 pm
so me and my friend are legit biffs like we cant go a day with out talking and all and im really getting feelings for him. i know i am going to tell him my feelings but i am leaving for vacation for 10 days and he said that he will be calling me alot. (he even said the alot pasrt) and he wants to go the the movies when i come back. the thing is im worried that if i tell him before all of this happens then all of this will disappear and never happen. so should i wait till after the movies which is the last thing? i want to tell him at perfect timing. when is that?? thanks in advance!
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The word "love"
Posted Thursday June 25 2009, 3:20 am
Hi! :) my bf and I are both 18 and extremely happy with one another. We are also both born again Christians. I know he loves me and he knows that I love him, but he refuses to say the actual words "I love you". His reason? He doesn't want to ever say those three powerful words to more than one woman his entire life. (relationship wise...) he said that the person he days it to is the woman he will want to spend his life with. We have been going out for 3 months. I understand his reasoning and all...but I feel that if he feels something, then why not say it? Am I wrong? And when we talk about it he always tells me all this stuff EXCEPT I love you. He knows that I don't want to say it first too. He has told me to go ahead tho and say...
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should i stay or should i go now
Posted Thursday June 25 2009, 12:29 am
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I've been dating this guy for about three months and he has a problem with not calling me. He doesn't have a cell phone (I do) and I really hate calling his parents house to reach him and bug them or leave it up to them to relay a message. I've told him a few times I have a problem with him not calling me when he goes five or seven days and he got better.
About two weeks ago he got kicked out of his parents house (long story) so now he is staying with his grandparents, and he didn't call me for ten days! He finialy called yesterday but we didn't say much, I told him I felt like braking it off but that I wanted to talk about it later (he said okay).
I know he's not in a good place right now (mentally) and isn't th...
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sex
Posted Wednesday June 24 2009, 10:44 pm
i had sex 2ish weeks ago. the first time we had it w. out a condom but put a condom on to finish then the next time was no condom but he didnt finish and then he had a condom on but never finished. i know theres always a chance no matter what. but is there a big chance?
thanks for the help.
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so there's this guy...
Posted Wednesday June 24 2009, 10:34 pm
Ok, so this guy, we became friends this past year. He got my phone number and continuously texted me. Like, all the time. If I didn't answer within 2 minutes he'd text again asking why I wasn't replying. So yeah, back then I didn't really talk to him that often because we didn't have classes together, we never saw each other, I just didn't think we had anything in common. Well, one day I actually replied and we were talking for a while when another friend of mine invited me to go to a movie with her. So I guess I mentioned that I was going to the movies with him, because he was like "Oh can I come?" so I said "sure, why not". So he came and we all hung out and it was really fun. So, I decided he was pretty cool because h...
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Are All First Kisses Awkward?
Posted Wednesday June 24 2009, 9:57 pm
My first kiss I was so nervous and it was awkward. My boyfriend's 16 and so am I. We've never been in a relationship before. We hung out a ton and talk a lot so we know eachother very well. Are all first kisses awkward? Does it get easier? How low does it take for it to be comfortable?
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getting back with an ex
Posted Wednesday June 24 2009, 9:54 pm
i know you can't make an ex fall back in love with you, but if the two of you are still friends and hanging out, what are some ways to "spark" things up a bit...besides just being yourself and the old girl he fell in love with.
thank youuu(:
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Bad Kisser
Posted Wednesday June 24 2009, 9:51 pm
My boyfriend and I are 16 and have never had a relationship before. We had our first kiss recently. It was nothing special and he used tooo much tongue. Is it too soon to tell him that he uses too much tongue? Or too late since it was 4 days ago and we've hung out since? I don't want to kiss him again til I talk to him about it. I plan on just telling him to close his eyes so I can show him how I like to be kissed. How can I word that though?
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Too Shy to Kiss
Posted Wednesday June 24 2009, 9:47 pm
Alright this sounds really lame.. but hear me out and please don't judge. I'm 16 and my boyfriend is 16. Neither of us have had a relationship before. We had our first kiss and he used a lot of tongue which I didn't like. Now I never know when to kiss him. Like I think about it and it would feel so awkward and weird just to go up and kiss him. What can I say to him or how can I go about kissing him? He's too shy to make the first move.
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hey :)
Posted Wednesday June 24 2009, 7:16 pm
okayy so i hung out with my ex and one of my best friends and then we met up with 2 other friends, so it was the 5 of us. it was chill, we talked like friends would talk, nothing serious. he brought up things from the past though like i had my favorite necklace on my mirror in the car and he pointed that out and one of my favorite songs was on the radio so he stopped and let it play saying "oh you love this song" when he doesn't like it. then at the end of the night i didn't feel like getting up so i said to like everyone "can someone give me a piggy back ride to the car" and he gave me one. he's been really chill and i want him back, but i don't want to come on too strong. so my questions are, 1. when should i ask him i...
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Not affectionate
Posted Wednesday June 24 2009, 6:11 pm
My boyfriend and I have been having issues lately. It's summer break and naturally we are seeing a lot less of eachother. I haven't seen him in over a week which is strange seeing as we usually see eachother every day. The problem is that I'm not taking it so badly. He thinks that I don't want to see him, but that's not it. I don't really like summer vacation because I feel like I'm kind of useless during it, but at the same time I'm an independent person. My boyfriend isn't exactly like that, he's a lot more affectionate you could say. I feel like there's all these things that couples are supposed to do and I just don't want to lose myself but it feels like I'm hurting him and this is hurting me too. I know this isn't much of a question bu...
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playing me?
Posted Wednesday June 24 2009, 5:31 pm
me and my ex boyfriend have been dealing for 4 weeks now. we've had sex held hands made out kissed everything a couple does.. and yesturday i asked soo.. do you want to get back together and he said no. and im like why? he's like i just dont want to. so he was just leading me on for fun and games? i dont want to keep doing the things we do if we're not together.. because while we were dealing he told me how much he loved me and then sum random girl asked him if he had anyone special in his life and he said no.. which crushed me because i tell everyone im taken maybe not officially but we're getting there so therfore i just say im taken.. was he just playing me? should i just forget about him? allt he sighns we're there that he wanted to get...
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idk if my bf likes me?
Posted Wednesday June 24 2009, 4:06 pm
ok so i have a bf whose unexperienced when it comes to dating hes only had one other gf whose super pretty but she cheated on him cus he "never did anything" not even a kiss so i am like his "guinea pig" he even mentioned that he just wants a gf in high school to have practice and doesnt plan on going further than high school and when we first started making out he insisted on making out every day and every time we hang out idk if he likes me or jus using me to "practice" i dont wanna waste my time but i read tips or w/e and he does look into my eyes alot and he tells me how much he likes me but i think im paranoid or somehting? does he like me?
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pamy bf and his well...pants
Posted Wednesday June 24 2009, 4:06 pm
Me and my bf have been going out for almost 4 months we makeout and stuff but i want to stick my hands down his pants, at a movie he kinda feeled me up barely just kinda my arm and a little of my chest barely how do i get him to feel me up? how can i get him 2 know i want to stick my hands down his panst without telling him?
Got any movie flirting ideas?
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How to win him over
Posted Wednesday June 24 2009, 4:04 pm
k so I'm 16 female and I am having some boy problems. I am totally ready for a boyfriend and I have liked this guy for a really long time. I have only had one boyfriend for a few weeks and It was a bad experience and I am really ready to move on. The guy that I like keeps giving mixed signals. He acts flirty and stuff and idk if he even knows I like him or not. I have tried everything and he can rarely hang out cause his parents are divorced. I want him to know how I feel but he gets really shy and embarrassed. We have a sweet 16 coming up and I want to know how to act around him to maybe win him over. I just would love to go out with him and I need some advice on how to get him to either like me back or tell me how he feels. Even t...
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undecided
Posted Wednesday June 24 2009, 4:02 pm
I've been single for the past couple months... i would rather not get into the subject of why my ex and I broke up because i'm afraid if i start i will never stop.. and believe me..that's not a good thing.
Recently, i met someone new... problem is.. he is going into the navy within the next couple months. I can honestly say he is one of the nicest and most sincere guys I have ever met in my life. And I am definitely not blinded when i say this.. because after my last relationship I think I know by now the difference between when a guy is being real and when he's not.
I guess I'm at the point where i feel somewhat alone...he is going to leave in a couple months..and right now he is the only one keeping me from ...
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my bf always yelles at me
Posted Wednesday June 24 2009, 4:02 pm
Me and my bf have been together for 2 years now.We don't fight much these days but when we do he yelle at me and he really scares me sometimes.He really makes me upset and makes me cry then he says he's sorry and he said i should treat him better and i wont yell at u.He tells his family things that aren't true,but i really love him i dont want to break up
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