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idk if my bf likes me?


Question Posted Wednesday June 24 2009, 4:06 pm

ok so i have a bf whose unexperienced when it comes to dating hes only had one other gf whose super pretty but she cheated on him cus he "never did anything" not even a kiss so i am like his "guinea pig" he even mentioned that he just wants a gf in high school to have practice and doesnt plan on going further than high school and when we first started making out he insisted on making out every day and every time we hang out idk if he likes me or jus using me to "practice" i dont wanna waste my time but i read tips or w/e and he does look into my eyes alot and he tells me how much he likes me but i think im paranoid or somehting? does he like me?

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Debateist answered Wednesday June 24 2009, 8:31 pm:
Hey chic,
Okay when you got with him he did tell you of his intentions so in the begining he was defo just stringing you along. But this does not prove anything its similar to the whole friends with benefits situation sometimes what starts as a fling of sorts can turn into a lot more. Although hun if I am being honest the only way you are gonna find out is if you ask him, but I get that maybe you cant and thats fine so what you can do instead is go with it. If he does like you then you'll still b together but if not then you have to prepare for the worst hun and enjoy it whilst it lasts.
Also even if you guys do split as planned, this doesnt mean that he doesnt like you, would you kiss someone you didnt like every day??
Good luck chic, I hope that all works out and if not then dont let it get you down you will meet someone one day that will sweep you off your feet and you wont even see him coming!!
Hope I helped!!
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BahaiMa22 answered Wednesday June 24 2009, 5:28 pm:
In my opinion he is just using you to gain exsperience so he isn't completely clueless when it comes to the one he does plan on going long term with. For a straight answer...I just don't think he is that into you. The whole looking into your eyes and saying how much he likes you.. well from what you wrote above sounds like he is using the old trick from the book to convince you too stay.

You said: "he even mentioned that he just wants a gf in high school to have practice and doesnt plan on going further"


Think about it, Do you really want someone who is going to end up dumping you? ..


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