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my guy friend likes me
ok so theres this guy who moved to my school at the begining of last year. ever since then we have been great friends (even though he is a year younger than me). anyways, so after a while i started getting feelings for him but i stopped having those feelings along time ago. And now he keeps asking me out and everything. He even tried to write a song for me, which was really bad but really sweet too. and now that he started having feelings for me it has like ruined our friendship. I mean now when ever i try to just hang out with him he thinks its a date. any advice???
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Talk to him and tell him that you want to be friends and nothing more and if he isnt ok with that then you guys cant talk anymore. I know this might be hard for you to say, but i promise if he cares about you enough then he will take you seriously and stop bein like he is and he will be your friend.
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Hey..well all you could do in your part is make sure your feeling for him are made clear to him...
tell him you just want to be friends...and that your sorry you dont feel the same way towards him as he does to you.
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Hey there,
this is always a tough situation to be in for both sides.
but you need to be clear with him as nicely as possible that you just wanna be his friend and nothing more tell him you love him but not in a boyfriend girlfriend kind of way,and that when you hang out its strictly as friends.
say how you feel things are different now and you dont want them to be and you dont want to ruin your friendship,
hopefully he will understand,this happend me and things were awkward for about or week or two and it was hell because we werent talking much so i thought he wasnt ever going to talk to me again,but after you tell him it might be like this for a while but he will come around once he has come to terms with it and accepted it.
he will have a bit of an ego bruise for a while but trust me things should get back to normal.
also reassure him that he will find someone who likes him as a bf
I hope I helped and that things work out,
good luck =)
Much <3
Jess [15/f]
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