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I've been single for the past couple months... i would rather not get into the subject of why my ex and I broke up because i'm afraid if i start i will never stop.. and believe me..that's not a good thing.
Recently, i met someone new... problem is.. he is going into the navy within the next couple months. I can honestly say he is one of the nicest and most sincere guys I have ever met in my life. And I am definitely not blinded when i say this.. because after my last relationship I think I know by now the difference between when a guy is being real and when he's not.
I guess I'm at the point where i feel somewhat alone...he is going to leave in a couple months..and right now he is the only one keeping me from going insane. my best friend has compromised herself more then i ever imagined and i feel like i don't know her at all anymore. My parent's could care less about my personal life...and really no one seems to understand.
I don't know what to do anymore....
I feel like everytime something good comes into my life, it leaves just as quickly.
please help :(
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Discuss your relationship with him. Does he want to stay together while he's away? If so, there are lots of ways to stay in touch. Letters are romantic, phone calls are great to hear each others voice, and many people in the service use web cams to stay in touch. You may find that your relationship grows stronger over this period. Absence makes the heart grow fonder, they say. You both can find out if you really matter to each other or if he isn't so important in your life.
My personal belief is that things happen for a reason. God could be giving you an oppurtunity to test your faith and to recieve a great reward. If this man really is the one for you, you can survive seperation and have a beautiful reunion. This could be something to fight for, to hold on to.
Good luck and have faith,
-Abby
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there's nothing you can really do except appreciate this time with him. you can't pull him out of the navy. you could join the navy, to spend time with him... but thats your choice. you just need to stop worrying about the future, and take things slowly. don't rush into the future. just relax and have fun!
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