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playing me?


Question Posted Wednesday June 24 2009, 5:31 pm

me and my ex boyfriend have been dealing for 4 weeks now. we've had sex held hands made out kissed everything a couple does.. and yesturday i asked soo.. do you want to get back together and he said no. and im like why? he's like i just dont want to. so he was just leading me on for fun and games? i dont want to keep doing the things we do if we're not together.. because while we were dealing he told me how much he loved me and then sum random girl asked him if he had anyone special in his life and he said no.. which crushed me because i tell everyone im taken maybe not officially but we're getting there so therfore i just say im taken.. was he just playing me? should i just forget about him? allt he sighns we're there that he wanted to get back together he even said he wanted to ask me out again but remeber the word was "WANTED" .. i dont know what to do </3

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orphans answered Thursday June 25 2009, 3:20 am:
Why would someone buy the cow if they could get the milk for free?

Signs a man has or is playing you,
He'll expect you to take time out of your day for him, but won't for you.

He'll say what he knows you want to hear, to get what he wants. (EX: But honey, I love you... In a mocking tone)

Will spend little to no money on you.

Either you are together or you're NOT.

So if he is saying that he isn't with anyone, then I would take the hint that he isn't taking your feelings into perspective, and doesn't care.

Does he even get you off during sex? Does he pleasure you? or expect to get right to it, without "heating up the oven?"

I would steer clear.

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dearcandore answered Thursday June 25 2009, 1:08 am:
Yes, he's playing you. Some guys will do anything to get a girl to sleep with them. Turn around and walk away now while you still have a little of your sanity and self respect left, even if its difficult. You're body is one of the greatest gifts you can give someone. To give it away for free with no commitment and no promises is a waste of something real special, and it is NEVER a way to attract a good guy. Don't bother with this guy anymore. Respect yourself and others will too.

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