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How to win him over


Question Posted Wednesday June 24 2009, 4:04 pm


k so I'm 16 female and I am having some boy problems. I am totally ready for a boyfriend and I have liked this guy for a really long time. I have only had one boyfriend for a few weeks and It was a bad experience and I am really ready to move on. The guy that I like keeps giving mixed signals. He acts flirty and stuff and idk if he even knows I like him or not. I have tried everything and he can rarely hang out cause his parents are divorced. I want him to know how I feel but he gets really shy and embarrassed. We have a sweet 16 coming up and I want to know how to act around him to maybe win him over. I just would love to go out with him and I need some advice on how to get him to either like me back or tell me how he feels. Even though sometimes I feel like he likes me, I also feel like there is something holding him back and idk what it could be. HELP! oo we are also pretty good friends if that makes a difference. thank you =]


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Andersen answered Wednesday June 24 2009, 10:16 pm:
Alright, basicly for relationships, especially at your age, 16, people don't tend to be going out because they want to get married but for the "boyfriend or girlfriend experience". So the way I think of it is that chances are you will NEVER meet this guy again after highschool if you guys break up, so don't overthink it, you guys will forget about eachother anyway eventually unless it turns out to be something really good. I'll tell you what i would do ( i'm a guy so lets just pretend He is a she),I would just ask him out, i mean, what do you have to lose, NOTHING!. Just live life and ask the guy out, no need to Win him over, if you play that game neiter of you will ever end up going out. If you guys are friends, you should have nothing to worry about!

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Volleyball2150 answered Wednesday June 24 2009, 4:51 pm:
you need to tell him how you feel. if he cant hang out that much, trying telling him over an email or text or phone call. in life, you need to take risks. if you dont, then how are you to succeed in life and live your life to the fullest??

just tell him!!!

the worst that could happen is that he doesnt like you back, and then you just forget about it and move on. there are plenty of other fishes in the sea :)

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