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I have been going out with my boyfriend for 4 weeks almost 5. And I want to makeout with him, I know he does too but he wont do anything that Im not comfortable doing. So, we haven't even kissed, I don't want to make out/kiss him because I dont know how? I know this sounds cheesy but I don't want to mess it up, or make it really akward.. Because this is my first kiss too and I really like him. So can anyone give me advice on how to kiss/make out? Thank-you soo much if you reply to this!
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I really agree with momma. But also, just remember, although your nerbes may be up, chances are it won't make or break a relationship. I know it seems like it will because of what you may hear from friends, but usually (unless he is a complete Idiot), If this relationship does end without you kissing him and he pulls out the "you weren't fun enough." Or the "you never wanted to do things." trick then he's just covering up for something else that he probably did. And if he is a good boyfriend then he should respect your boundries untill your comfortable. I had my first kiss a not so long ago and it was my girlfriend kissing me, yes I am a boy so your getting your advice from the opposite spectrum, but sometimes they will be the one to make the move and you won't see it coming. And if so just let it happen (if your comfortable with it) and hope it goes well, if not, no biggie, he should understand.
Sincerely,
Andersen
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k so I'm 16 female and I am having some boy problems. I am totally ready for a boyfriend and I have liked this guy for a really long time. I have only had one boyfriend for a few weeks and It was a bad experience and I am really ready to move on. The guy that I like keeps giving mixed signals. He acts flirty and stuff and idk if he even knows I like him or not. I have tried everything and he can rarely hang out cause his parents are divorced. I want him to know how I feel but he gets really shy and embarrassed. We have a sweet 16 coming up and I want to know how to act around him to maybe win him over. I just would love to go out with him and I need some advice on how to get him to either like me back or tell me how he feels. Even though sometimes I feel like he likes me, I also feel like there is something holding him back and idk what it could be. HELP! oo we are also pretty good friends if that makes a difference. thank you =] (link)
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Alright, basicly for relationships, especially at your age, 16, people don't tend to be going out because they want to get married but for the "boyfriend or girlfriend experience". So the way I think of it is that chances are you will NEVER meet this guy again after highschool if you guys break up, so don't overthink it, you guys will forget about eachother anyway eventually unless it turns out to be something really good. I'll tell you what i would do ( i'm a guy so lets just pretend He is a she),I would just ask him out, i mean, what do you have to lose, NOTHING!. Just live life and ask the guy out, no need to Win him over, if you play that game neiter of you will ever end up going out. If you guys are friends, you should have nothing to worry about!
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