Ok so I'm 16 female and I am having some boy problems. I am totally ready for a boyfriend and I have liked this guy for a really long time. I have only had one boyfriend for a few weeks and It was a bad experience and I am really ready to move on. The guy that I like keeps giving mixed signals. He acts flirty and stuff and idk if he even knows I like him or not. I have tried everything and he can rarely hang out cause his parents are divorced. I want him to know how I feel but he gets really shy and embarrassed. We have a sweet 16 coming up and I want to know how to act around him to maybe win him over. I just would love to go out with him and I need some advice on how to get him to either like me back or tell me how he feels. Even though sometimes I feel like he likes me, I also feel like there is something holding him back and idk what it could be. HELP! oo we are also pretty good friends if that makes a difference. thank you =]
[ Answer this question ] Want to answer more questions in the Relationships category? Maybe give some free advice about: Love Life? skylalou_1 answered Wednesday November 12 2008, 4:46 pm: Well, in situations like these, being good friends makes a big difference. This gives the other person a better chance to eventually tell you how they feel or just to be themselves around you. You should wait until your both hanging out, usually when your not around a lot of other people, and just ask him how he feels about you. Of course it's going to be awkward, but atleast if you get it out in the open, he won't give you mixed signals anymore. Of course he may be alittle shy, so try starting out like telling him he's a great guy and everything and kinda go into detail, but without pushing him away... you know wat i mean? then maybe he'll open up to you and tell you how he feels about you and if not, just kinda hint around about asking him... See if this works then tell me okie dokie... hope it helps [ skylalou_1's advice column | Ask skylalou_1 A Question ]
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