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should i stay or should i go now
20f
I've been dating this guy for about three months and he has a problem with not calling me. He doesn't have a cell phone (I do) and I really hate calling his parents house to reach him and bug them or leave it up to them to relay a message. I've told him a few times I have a problem with him not calling me when he goes five or seven days and he got better.
About two weeks ago he got kicked out of his parents house (long story) so now he is staying with his grandparents, and he didn't call me for ten days! He finialy called yesterday but we didn't say much, I told him I felt like braking it off but that I wanted to talk about it later (he said okay).
I know he's not in a good place right now (mentally) and isn't thinking about calling me every few days but on the other hand I feel like I'm just making excuses for him.
I have some friends that say dump him and others that say let him have one more chance. I know its my choice/desision.
But I wanted an outside opinion on the situation.
Any ideas? Thanks.
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Hey hun,
This is a tough situation to find yourself in, but if it were me I would determine how much more of all this nonsense that I could take and also how much I liked him. I understand that he is going through a hard time but does that mean that you have to get brought down with him and that is whats happening he is making you question yourself and whether you are being to hard on him. When in actual fact if the situation were reversed he would probably have dumped you by now. If none of this is convincing then take yourself out of the equation and ask yourself what would you say to your friend if she was going through this?.
If its meant to be then its meant to be chic.
Good luck with whatever you decide!!
Dxxxxxx
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